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Coaching Real Leaders

How Do I Ask for Help?

Coaching Real Leaders

Harvard Business Review / Muriel Wilkins

Executive, Business/careers, Leadership, Careers, Business/management, Sessions, Hbr, Coaching, Review, Society & Culture, C-suite, Leaders, Harvard, Business, Management

4.8660 Ratings

🗓️ 12 December 2022

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

She’s carved out a unique role for herself, which she loves, but worries that the pace of work is unsustainable. As she thinks about the next step in her career, she realizes that it will require her to lean on the help of others — something she’s not used to doing. Host Muriel Wilkins coaches her through how to get the support she needs to move forward in her career.

Transcript

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0:00.0

HBR Presents.

0:03.0

I'm Yario Wilkins and this is coaching real leaders, part of the HBR Presents Network.

0:19.0

I'm a longtime executive coach who works with highly successful

0:22.2

leaders who fit a bump in the road. My job is to help them get over that bump by clarifying

0:27.5

their goals and figuring out a way to reach them so that hopefully they can lead with a little

0:32.5

more ease. I typically work with clients over the course of several months, but on this show, we have a one-time

0:39.3

coaching meeting focusing on a specific leadership challenge they're facing.

0:48.5

Today's guest is someone will call Sabine to protect her confidentiality.

0:53.1

She has, in her words, reached a high level in her

0:56.1

career doing something she loves through a combination of determination and a bit of luck.

1:01.8

I always wanted to be creative, but I was never encouraged by my family. I was told I'd be a

1:06.1

poor hippie. I didn't have great educational experiences when I was younger. I was, basically, I was told if I wanted to go to school, I had to pay my way.

1:17.8

And the easiest way for me to do that was through sports. So I basically got on like an athletic scholarship.

1:24.7

When I started teaching, I realized finally how I learned. I became addicted to curiosity,

1:30.3

and once I had this feeling, it was like I felt like I had the best gift in the world.

1:35.2

Like, no matter where I met in life, this will always help me kind of break through to whatever's

1:40.1

next. And I think it's the best gift you can give somebody is to help them find a voice.

1:45.6

Sabine has parlayed her work ethic and love of teaching into her current role.

1:51.1

I would say the passion for me is that it's really about creating things from scratch and helping

1:56.7

other people learn how to learn and accelerate their learning. I have to be both externally and

2:03.8

internally efficient and effective. Internally, the people that I serve are essentially the partners,

2:10.3

and my job is to distill their thoughts that are sometimes never been actually externalized.

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