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How Did Alex Murdaugh Go From 'A Loving Family Man' To Evil Incarnate?

True Crime Today | Daily True Crime News & Interviews

Tony Brueski

True Crime, News Commentary, News

4.2 β€’ 612 Ratings

πŸ—“οΈ 16 May 2026

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Summary

Researchers have identified a type of family annihilator called "anomic" β€” men who see their families as symbols of their own success and destroy them when the facade collapses. James Lasdun's new book The Family Man places Alex Murdaugh alongside documented cases that mirror his almost exactly. The most disturbing constant: in every single one, the people closest to the killer described him as a loving family man. Nobody saw it coming. Nobody believed it was possible.

The book profiles Jean-Claude Romand, a Frenchman who faked being a doctor for eighteen years, stole money from everyone who trusted him, and killed his wife, both children, and his parents when the lies started to fall apart. The financial fraud, the decades of deception, the moment of exposure β€” the parallels to the Murdaugh case are specific and documented.

Co-prosecutor John Meadors went off-script during closing arguments and suggested maybe Alex "just lost it" β€” that the murders weren't calculated. The book argues both could be true. The research on psychopathy lists planning and impulsivity as traits of the same condition. The first officer at Moselle described Alex's eyes as wrong β€” low blink rate, staring off as if reading from a script. Hours later, Alex was sobbing in a SLED agent's car and it looked completely real. The book suggests the grief and the deception were happening simultaneously. That both were genuine.

But the manipulation went back years. Morgan Doughty's first statement allegedly said someone else was driving the boat the night Mallory Beach was killed. The story changed after Alex showed up at the hospital. He sat with a sketch artist and drew a composite of his "attacker" after the staged shooting β€” it allegedly looked like a boat crash survivor. He wrote a $5,000 backdated check to a police chief who was at the murder scene. The pattern didn't start at the kennels. It started years before.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is the big breakdown.

0:02.2

A long look back at some of the biggest stories we're covering for you at the Hidden

0:05.9

Killers podcast and True Crime Today.

0:09.3

This is Hidden Killers with Tony Bruske.

0:12.4

Here now, Tony Bruske.

0:15.8

The Murdoch case didn't start at the kennels.

0:18.1

It started in patterns.

0:20.7

Patterns of control, patterns of manipulation,

0:23.8

and staging that Alec had been perfecting for years. The family man by James Lasden traces

0:30.8

those patterns through original reporting and interviews that go deeper than anything that came out

0:36.7

at his trial. What emerges isn't a portrait of a man who snapped in the moment.

0:41.9

It's a portrait of a man who'd been rehearsing or really had been doing himself,

0:48.1

being Alec, being Alec, all this time.

0:51.7

It just seems that the perspective of adding a little murder to the mix made people look a little bit differently at it.

1:00.6

James, thank you so much for joining us. Very much looking forward to having this conversation about this book, The Family Man.

1:09.5

I want to ask you, before we kind of get into the meat of the book,

1:13.7

what is your relationship to the story,

1:16.4

meaning like when did you hear about it?

1:18.5

What drew you in?

1:19.9

And what made you say, I think there's more to tell here

1:23.1

than just what we've been hearing thus far.

1:27.0

Well, first of all, thank you so much for inviting me to come and talk to you about it.

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