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The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast

How Catholics Should Connect with Others

The Fr. Mike Schmitz Catholic Podcast

Ascension

Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture

4.97.1K Ratings

🗓️ 9 January 2020

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

There’s justice and prudence and temperance and fortitude, faith, and hope, and love. But do you recall the social virtues at all? Thankfulness and affability are some social virtues that show us how Catholics should connect with others in social situations.

Thankfulness is the social virtue by which we acknowledge people and their generosity. It’s not just a customary expression of thanks when someone does something nice. It means going out of your way to show people your gratitude for them going out of their way for you.

Affability is another word for approachability. It means you’re free to talk and free to help. You don’t mind people knocking on your door to tell you something. It is another social virtue that makes us put others before ourselves.

Being introverted is not an excuse to avoid these virtues. An introverted person can most certainly have a heart focused on other people, and that is what’s at the heart of the social virtues.

You may think these virtues aren’t as important as the others since they are not so explicitly mentioned in Scripture. In fact they are. Remember the parable of the lepers in Luke 17:11-19. Jesus heals ten lepers, and only one returns to thank him. Jesus asks, “Where are the other nine?”

Likewise, Jesus regularly healed those who approached him out of the blue, showing affability. Jesus showed the social virtues, and so should we.

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0:00.0

How many of us in any given moment have a face on us that would be an unapproachable face?

0:06.6

You might say it's a

0:08.6

R-U-F a resting unapproachable face.

0:20.5

Hi, my name is Father Mike Smiths and this is Ascension Presents. So the virtues they're important to know

0:25.4

are even more important to live. So we probably know the cardinal virtues might be the hinge virtues, prudence, temperance, justice, fortitude.

0:32.3

We can talk about those in another time if we haven't talked about them yet. I don't know.

0:35.6

There's probably a link below or a link above if you've if we've talked about them already.

0:39.6

The ancients had those in the Greeks. They talked about them a lot. You know the philosophers and like such a good way to live your life.

0:45.2

Basically what what it takes to live a heroic life or what it takes to live a good life is

0:49.7

justice, temperance, prudence, and fortitude. Right? What it takes to live a holy life are the the logical virtues, faith, open love.

0:57.5

And those are gifts of God that we can cooperate with. But they're gifts, right? Faith, and hope, and love all gifts.

1:03.5

But did you know there's a whole host of other virtues as well. They have the four principal virtues, the three theological virtues,

1:09.7

cardinal virtues, the theological virtues. But you also have these things called social virtues. Right? Social virtues.

1:15.1

What's an example of a social virtue? There's this parable not a parable. It's a story from the Bible.

1:19.5

From the Gospels it actually happened. There were these ten lepers and they met Jesus and they said they were lepers.

1:23.9

So they were going to die basically and up from leprosy and they were outcasts and they said Jesus son of David had a pitiatus, have mercy on us.

1:31.9

So Jesus says go show yourself to the priests. They run off and on the way they were healed. One of them realizing he was healed came back to Jesus,

1:38.4

fill it his feet, and thanked him. And Jesus says, where are the other nine? Hasn't them but this foreigner, the guy was a Samaritan, has not but this but this foreigner returned to give thanks to God.

1:47.9

And you can kind of get the sense that Jesus is like, seriously? You were dead basically. You had leprosy cut off from everyone, going to die.

1:57.8

You're not going to die anymore. You get to rejoin the people, you know, your family's friends. And you're not even going to come back and say thanks.

2:05.8

Here's thankfulness. Thanksgiving, gratitude is what you call that one of the social virtues. It and of itself is good.

2:14.9

But it's almost always in relation to someone else. So it's social, right? It's a relationship virtue. But it's so necessary. Like if we're going to, if we're going to actually have like the heroic virtues that good life, justice, temperance, fortitude, prudence.

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