Hey Jim Daley here. If you like the focus on the family broadcast and haven't

grown tired of this voice just yet, you'll love my ReFocus podcast. On ReFocus I

take a deeper dive with a respected thinker on different aspects of culture. I

ask those hard questions that maybe they don't get that often and I don't

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Amazing things can happen when you decide that you want to improve the

relationship with your spouse by offering a blessing. Now that's not really

easy. Some of us struggle with let's call it selfishness, but I'm John Fuller

along with my friends and focus colleagues Aaron Smolley and her husband Greg

and we're going to help you feel better about all this Aaron. How does it

feel if Greg is trying to intentionally do things that will bless you that

will bring joy and happiness to you? I feel so honored and loved and seen and it's

so interesting. Something so simple just came to my mind as you asked me that

question. We just returned from South Africa and the very last day we were

there I was putting my makeup on and I mean this has been a long hard trip and one

of my eyeliners rolled off the bathroom cabinet and onto the ground underneath

this vanity in the bathroom at a hotel in a guesthouse. Oh my and my husband came

in and I expected him to go oh what was it like you know four dollar thing no big

deal just leave it there. He got down on his hands and knees and crawled

underneath this vanity in this guesthouse in a foreign country and I was like oh

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