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Death, Sex & Money

How a Matchmaking Job Inspired a Film About Dating's Secret Economy

Death, Sex & Money

Slate Podcasts

Business, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Careers, Relationships, Sexuality

4.67.6K Ratings

🗓️ 3 June 2025

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Long before Celine Song was nominated for an Academy Award for her directorial debut, Past Lives, she was a struggling playwright in New York City with a side hustle: matchmaking. In this episode, Celine talks about how that experience inspired the plot of her new A24 movie, Materialists, starring Dakota Johnson, Chris Evans, and Pedro Pascal. This podcast was produced by Zoe Azulay.  Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus. And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is [email protected]. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

If you were asked to conjure up your perfect romantic partner, how much money would they make?

0:06.7

How tall would they be? What kind of clothes would they wear? What sort of work would they do?

0:13.0

These were the sorts of questions director and writers, Celine Song, asked clients when she worked as a matchmaker in her early 20s. It's also the sorts of questions

0:23.0

her protagonist Lucy asks in her new movie called Materialists. You may know filmmaker Selen

0:31.6

Song from her 2023 debut feature Past Lives. It was nominated for multiple Academy Awards.

0:39.7

It told the story of one woman and two men that she loved.

0:44.4

One she'd met as a child in South Korea and stayed connected with after she moved away.

0:50.4

And one she met as an adult at an artist residency and married.

0:56.5

That movie was a soft,

1:03.1

slow love story. Like, I remember the aching feeling I had through long stretches of it.

1:14.3

Materialists is fast and quippy and chock full of hot movie stars. The matchmaker Lucy is played by Dakota Johnson. She caters to clients,

1:21.4

and she's also caught between two potential partners. The perfect on paper finance bachelor Harry,

1:32.8

played by Pedro Pascal. And then there's her imperfect ex-boyfriend John, played by Chris Evans, who's a struggling actor, making money doing catering and living with roommates.

1:44.5

Being a struggling artist is something that Celine's song herself has experience with. Before she was a movie director, she wrote plays. That's when she did matchmaking as a side hustle.

1:50.7

And in this conversation, Celine and I talk about what she learned from those early days flitting between high-end clients and her friends who were struggling writers and actors

1:55.7

and what is gleaned and what is missed when you are honest and up front about the currencies at play in the dating market.

2:05.6

I always say this, which is that, like, fine if you want somebody who's six feet tall.

2:10.2

We're all going to be five, seven at the end. We're all going to shrink.

2:16.4

This is death, Sex, and Money.

2:21.0

The show from Slate about the things we think about a lot

2:24.8

and need to talk about more.

2:29.6

I'm Anna Sale. sale.

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