Hinge expert shares dating advice for ambitious nerds

My First Million

Hubspot

Entrepreneurship, Investing, Business

4.8 • 2.7K Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2025

⏱️ 76 minutes

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Episode 709: Sam Parr ( https://x.com/theSamParr ) and Shaan Puri ( https://x.com/ShaanVP ) talk to Logan Ury ( https://x.com/loganury ) about how young men can be more successful in dating. — Show Notes: (0:00) Intro (6:28) The secretary problem (14:43) What's happening with men right now (21:07) How to do the apps right (27:32) Meeting someone IRL (30:03) The power of weak ties (36:56) How to be a better date (40:37) Date like a scientist (45:44) Fuck the spark (49:02) What's your tendency (51:00) AI partners (57:15) Pro tip: join a mens group (1:03:23) Mental Health vs Mental Fitness — Links: • Want Sam's Company Research Playbook? Get it here: https://clickhubspot.com/wve • Logan Ury - https://www.loganury.com/ • 3 Tendencies Quiz - https://www.loganury.com/quiz • The School of Life - https://www.youtube.com/@theschooloflifetv • Mating in Captivity - https://tinyurl.com/bddrnw9c • How to Not Die Alone - https://tinyurl.com/mupe2ntc • Seven Principles for Making a Marriage Work - https://tinyurl.com/jvz9hhu6 — Check Out Shaan's Stuff: • Shaan's weekly email - https://www.shaanpuri.com • Visit https://www.somewhere.com/mfm to hire worldwide talent like Shaan and get $500 off for being an MFM listener. Hire developers, assistants, marketing pros, sales teams and more for 80% less than US equivalents. • Mercury - Need a bank for your company? Go check out Mercury (mercury.com). Shaan uses it for all of his companies! Mercury is a financial technology company, not an FDIC-insured bank. Banking services provided by Choice Financial Group, Column, N.A., and Evolve Bank & Trust, Members FDIC — Check Out Sam's Stuff: • Hampton - https://www.joinhampton.com/ • Ideation Bootcamp - https://www.ideationbootcamp.co/ • Copy That - https://copythat.com • Hampton Wealth Survey - https://joinhampton.com/wealth • Sam’s List - http://samslist.co/ My First Million is a HubSpot Original Podcast // Brought to you by HubSpot Media // Production by Arie Desormeaux // Editing by Ezra Bakker Trupiano

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0:00.0	All right. So our friend Logan Yuri, she's a behavioral scientist turned dating coach. And according to
0:05.7	the analytics on this podcast, 93% of you listeners, you're men. And a lot of you are young. And
0:12.4	according to the data, a lot of you are also single. And so we thought it'd be cool to have
0:16.8	Logan come on to talk about dating. And it's shockingly just like building a business and that
0:22.0	there's actually a process that you could follow. You can iterate yourself there. And Logan actually
0:26.6	broke down how Sean and I met our spouses and gave a bunch of useful tips on how to meet someone.
0:32.3	And it's all back by science. And honestly, it's pretty hilarious. So check out this episode on how to
0:37.3	meet your future spouse.
0:39.2	I feel like I can rule the world. I know I could be what I want to. I put my all in it like no days off.
0:46.5	On a road, let's travel, never looking back. You, Logan, is a behavioral scientist. I know you, Logan, as just my good friend, but you also had a book called
0:54.4	How Not to Die Alone. And now you're on this tear where you've become a little bit of an expert
0:58.8	when it comes to dating, but also with masculinity. I just think you're a great conversationalist
1:03.7	and a wonderful person, and you're really, really smart. And you have a lot of data to back
1:07.2	a lot of your opinions. And you have a Netflix show. You're the something something, something high up on the research side at Hinge.
1:15.6	Is that right?
1:16.6	Yeah, the director of relationship science.
1:18.6	But sometimes people just call me the something, something, something.
1:21.6	Yeah, you can put that on your LinkedIn.
1:23.6	Sam, I got to tell you a story.
1:26.6	I think I've been sitting on this story for a little while.
1:30.4	So I met Logan for the first.
1:32.9	You know Logan well.
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