The Birch Show.

You can learn from anywhere, from anybody.

And according to Therapy Jeff on Instagram, monogamous couples can actually learn a thing or two from poly couples, right, Abby?

Yeah, I actually got this sent to me by a dedicated bird show listener, Charles.

And I actually, I've seen this guy talk about, um, about relationships constantly on my

four you page. So when I saw that he sent me this from therapy, Jeff, I was like, oh, I love this

guy. So he actually talked about how there are three non-monogamy skills that if you are in a

monogamous relationship, these are things you can learn from people in poly relationships, which I

think is so interesting. I think if you're a serial monogamous,

if you've never really stepped outside the monogamous box, you can go, oh, that's just not for me.

I personally could never. But turns out there are three things we can learn from them.

Three non-monogamy skills that can strengthen your monogamous relationship. One, be honest

about your desires, even the bad ones. So basically, people in polyamorous

relationships have to be more upfront and more communicative and more vocal about the things that

they want out of relationships. Because if you're dealing with multiple people, it's almost like you've got to be a

business manager in your own relationship. So there are certain rules that maybe you need to set. Maybe there are certain

boundaries you need to set before you get into the relationship. You've got to set the parameters

so that people have the proper expectations in their relationships. Let's hear what else he had

to say? Economist people love to pretend they're never attracted to anyone else.

Meanwhile, Polly folks are over here casually discussing crushes over breakfast.

If you can admit, yeah, I find other people attractive without your partner spiraling into

a jealous rage.

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