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Am I the Jerk?

Helicopter Dad thinks He CONTROLS THEIR LIFE cuz He PAYS THE RENT

Am I the Jerk?

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Society & Culture, Relationships

4.82.7K Ratings

🗓️ 7 August 2025

⏱️ 24 minutes

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0:00.0

Helicopter Dad thinks he controls their life because he pays the rent.

0:06.0

This wasn't me, but my friend and roommate. It just happened the other day and she's still

0:10.4

angry about it and said that I could share it. For some context, she's a pre-law student,

0:16.0

aiming to get a nice degree in business law. Her parents are pretty successful people. They

0:20.6

live in a nice house,

0:21.6

in a nice neighborhood. Her dad is a straight-up helicopter dad, just bullying and controlling.

0:28.9

He controls her bank account and calls her to yell at her whenever she buys pretty much anything.

0:34.7

Like, you spent $8 at Starbucks? Why did you get a subway twice this week?

0:40.6

Why did you spend $50 at Target? Additionally, he pays her rent. She pays her own utilities,

0:46.4

which will be important later. He believes he can set all the rules for everyone in our house.

0:51.6

I told him straight up he doesn't get to dictate my life in any way,

0:55.4

and he can just F right off with that. My friend said that I apparently impressed him because

1:00.3

he's not used to people standing up to him, but he still doesn't like me. One major rule is

1:05.4

no men are allowed in the apartment ever. He seems to think that if there are any male naughty

1:10.6

bits in the apartment,

1:12.1

his daughter can't help but screw them. It's a good thing my cats are girls, I guess.

1:17.2

He doesn't think she has any standards or nothing, although he's lightened up a bit after

1:21.3

freaking out that my friend has a boyfriend and the fact that this boyfriend has stayed over

1:25.4

before. He also demanded she come home every weekend,

1:28.8

a two-hour drive without traffic, because he doesn't want her to go to parties. Luckily, she and her

1:34.7

level-headed mother have gotten him to lower it to once a month. As a result, she keeps a lot of stuff

1:40.4

from him, which makes him more angry and less trusting of her. So he tightens the

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