Hear This RED FLAG? He'll Break Your Heart! - STOP CHASING & Take Your Power Back | Matthew Hussey PT 1 (Fan Fave)

Women of Impact

Impact Theory

Society & Culture, Relationships, Education

4.8 • 701 Ratings

🗓️ 9 January 2026

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Are you tired of wasting time on relationships that go nowhere? It's time to arm yourself with the skills and knowledge you need to have a better dating life. So. I’m bringing you the best conversations I’ve had right here on Women of Impact with relationship expert Matthew Hussey. Join us as we tackle the tough questions and provide real solutions for women who are tired of dating the wrong men and tired of the painful aftermath every time. If we’re honest ladies, sometimes it’s the men, but sometimes we’re the ones causing our own painful demise. We're digging into the complexities of narcissistic behaviors, toxic traits, and diagnosing relationship problems. Plus, we address the vulnerability dilemma - how to open up without feeling judged, embarrassed, or shamed. Get ready to boost your confidence when it comes to asking the hard questions and addressing uncomfortable topics. Don't go on another date without equipping yourself with the tools to navigate the dating world successfully. Join us in this eye-opening truth-telling episode that gets a little hard to hear. It's time to take control of your dating life and find the love and happiness you deserve. QUOTES: “You have to assume that what someone is telling you about what they want is the reality.” “Be honest with yourself about how miserable something is making you.” “We often scare people off in relationships not because of our wounds, we scare them off because of our weapons.” “You don’t have to trust someone else if you trust yourself.” “If the reaction is hysterical, then it’s historical.” “Be kind in your tone and ruthless in your actions.” Follow Matthew Hussey: Website: ⁠https://www.howtogettheguy.com/⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/user/gettheguyteam⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/thematthewhussey/⁠ Follow Me Lisa Bilyeu: Website: ⁠https://www.radicalconfidence.com/⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/lisabilyeu/⁠ Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/lisabilyeu⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://twitter.com/lisabilyeu Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	So when it comes to selection and you're choosing somebody to be with, how do you know if it's them,
0:09.1	if it's them and the timing or if it's you and them together?
0:15.0	I've come to believe that timing is, timing is pretty paramount to these things. There's wiggle room in there. You can be
0:29.4	kind of ready, thinking, you know, your life has shifted and you meet someone who pushes you
0:36.3	over the edge and you go, wow, okay, you know, and you evolve, your life has shifted and you meet someone who pushes you over the edge and you go,
0:38.0	wow, okay. You know, you evolve, you have a growth spurt a little quicker than you would have
0:44.0	had if you hadn't met them. I don't have. I don't have too much faith in relationships where the timing is horrible and someone is absolutely
0:58.6	not ready and someone doesn't, is adamant against a relationship and someone comes along
1:05.1	to change their mind.
1:07.6	And you don't think in those moments they should tell themselves, well maybe it's just
1:10.8	timing and I should stay with them. Because I think that that becomes they should tell themselves, well, maybe it's just timing and I should stay with them.
1:12.3	Because I think that that becomes a lot like, oh, well, maybe in a year or two when the timing is right for them.
1:17.3	Well, firstly, you staying with them isn't going to make them more ready.
1:21.5	In some ways, you stunt their development by staying with them.
1:25.6	For a lot of people, it keeps them in that phase of not being
1:30.4	able to work through the things they need to work through in order to become ready. Now look,
1:36.0	that's fine. If you're a certain age where you're just enjoying being with someone and you're
1:40.9	also willing to say, you know what i i'm happy to lose three years here
1:46.9	and i'm i wouldn't see it as a loss because i just love this person and we're having a great time
1:51.2	and if you know if at the end of three years they're still not in a place where they're ready
1:55.6	i've got plenty of time to go and do the things i want to do you think people actually say that
2:00.4	or do you think like oh it, it was just three years.
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