Healing Your Intimacy After a History of TRAUMA w/ Dr. Daniel Blash, Psychologist and Pastor

Dear Young Married Couple

Adam & Karissa King

Christianity, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.8 • 871 Ratings

🗓️ 21 April 2020

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Dr. Daniel Blash, a psychologist and pastor in St. Louis, Missouri is anointed, educated, and gifted. It was an honor to interview him about the impact that trauma can have on the marriage. In this episode, Dr. Blash addresses: What trauma is vs. what it looks like Five domains of intimacy Small traumas that build up and the impact they can have on your marriage Holding on to stuff and letting trauma take space in your life How people get triggered How to work through a sexual history Healing through encounters with God and through godly counsel Dr. Blash recommended: His Needs Her Needs by Willard Harley We also recommend these books for couples healing from sexual trauma: Healing the Wounded Heart by Dan Allender When a Woman You Love was Abused by Dawn Scott Jones Stay in conversation with us on IG: @dearyoungmarriedcouple or on our website: www.dearyoungmarriedcouple.com P.S. Here are the links to the marriage card decks we talk about in the episode: FOUNDATIONS: https://amzn.to/2RaXF7g SEXPECTATIONS: https://amzn.to/2GbVMRA REALIZATIONS: https://amzn.to/3brNTWh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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0:29.6	The person who's gone through the trauma has to sort of relive it by telling it and then not
0:36.2	know exactly how the spouse is going to respond.
0:39.8	Rather, they'll be supportive or withdraw or maybe blame or feel like they read somebody who's damaged.
0:49.2	So it takes a tremendous amount of guts, grit, and determination
0:54.3	to even have conversation if you're the person
0:57.5	who's experienced a trauma.
1:00.0	If you're the other person, the spouse,
1:03.0	it's difficult too, because how much do you
1:06.2	want to hear about other relationships or abuse that happened?
1:12.5	Dear young married couple, you're in a busy season of your life.
1:17.5	You're probably working and involved in ministry.
1:20.6	On top of that, you might even be parents or students.
1:24.7	You're max, but you really want to stay connected in your marriage. And that's why
1:29.8	we're bringing this podcast to you. I'm Adam King. And I'm Carissa King, and we work with busy couples
1:35.1	just like you in our counseling office here in Sacramento, California. We also work with couples all
1:40.0	over the world through online counseling. And our couples are really just looking for ways to communicate with each other more effectively.
1:46.5	Some of them are looking to heal from a breach and trust or find direction in fulfilling the
1:51.4	purpose that God has for them.
1:53.3	So come and join us as we have a conversation.
1:55.8	We'll talk with therapists, authors, pastors, and other couples who will pour into us, giving us tools to become more
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