Heal First, Love Better: The Repair Framework That Changes Everything

The School of Greatness

Lewis Howes

Entrepreneurship, Fitness, Inspiration, Greatness, Health, Money, Celebrity Interview, Self Care, Celebrity, Success, Mental Health, Relationships, Mindset, Health & Fitness, Education, Alternative Health, Business, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 20 October 2025

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

Relationship expert Baya Voce reveals why our need for frictionless experiences is destroying our ability to handle real-world conflict and how exposure to discomfort might be the key to lasting love. You'll learn the exact repair scripts that can transform arguments into deeper connection within minutes.

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0:00.0	Previously on the School of Greatness.
0:02.0	There is no truth in relationship.
0:04.0	There are just two people who are having their own experiences and you live in your world
0:08.0	and I live over here in my world.
0:10.0	And as long as we're arguing for the truth, we're both going to lose because the truth doesn't actually exist.
0:15.0	If we're fighting the truth, we are fighting a losing battle. Period. Full stop.
0:20.0	So I'm curious then, how long were you dating men until
0:25.0	you started dating your wife or or women i was dating men basically from elementary school until i met
0:31.0	my wife really yeah i never thought there wasn't ever a coming out story in fact when i first met emmy
0:37.4	this is the story well i know i When I first met Emmy, I... How old were you when you started dating her? My mid-30s. Oh. Yeah. Okay. And... So you were dating a man right before that? Yeah. Were you ever engaged to a man or married? I was engaged at one point.
0:55.6	I was engaged to man.
0:56.6	Yeah, yeah, yeah.
0:57.7	Interesting.
0:59.4	So what's, I guess what's the, I know, I know.
1:02.5	What's the.
1:04.3	What happened?
1:05.3	Sure, tell me what happened.
1:06.3	I mean, what happened?
1:07.3	Tell me what happened or why, why, um, go from, you know, dating man after
1:14.0	man after man to now being married to a woman? Well, first of all, I, I don't know is the true
1:21.2	answer. But that's just the truth. I, there's a term that I'm not thinking of right now,
1:30.3	that someone's gonna tell us exactly what it is.
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