He’s Just Not That Into You & Jared Freid Explains Why

Untraditionally Lala

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3.4 • 12.8K Ratings

🗓️ 30 July 2025

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Dating feels like a full-time job and straight men aren’t exactly out here making it easy. Lucky for us, Jared Freid, comedian and co-host of Betches' U Up? Podcast, is breaking down the cryptic language of bros everywhere. From DMs to texts to full-on screen grabs, he’s decoding what “heyyy” really means and helping you figure out what you actually want before wasting your precious energy. Is he obsessed with you or just bored? Are you even that into him or just into the attention? Come for the dating tea, stay for the LOLs.

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0:00.0	Lala is that a Lauren?
0:02.0	Yeah, how did you know?
0:03.6	Because we had a Lala in my high school, the girl with a, I mean, I'm referencing someone I haven't thought about in like a hundred years, but there was a Lala that was Lauren.
0:12.9	Yeah, that's exactly right.
0:14.4	They called me Lala B in high school.
0:16.5	Lala B.
0:17.8	Yeah.
0:18.7	That's hilarious in Utah.
0:22.6	That's like out of a movie about Utah High School.
0:25.8	Totally.
0:26.5	You know?
0:27.1	Yeah.
0:30.8	Hello, gorgeous.
0:32.2	It is Lala Kent.
0:33.2	Today's guest is fucking hilarious, brutally honest, which I love, and completely relatable.
0:40.5	Jared Freed, he is the voice behind the U-Up and J-Train podcast, a killer stand-up comic,
0:45.8	and basically the dating translator slash guru that we all really need, especially, well, especially me.
0:52.8	We're talking about the games guys play and why your screenshots to the group chat are
0:58.6	valid therapy.
0:59.9	So let's jump right into it.
1:02.2	Is that true?
1:03.2	I'm so terrified of screenshots being sent that like when I get text messages, I will
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