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The Daily Stoic

Have You Read The Books? | Test Your Impressions

The Daily Stoic

Daily Stoic | Backyard Ventures

Society & Culture, 694393, Stoicism, Ryan Holiday, Business, Self-improvement, Philosophy, Stoic, Stoic Philosophy, Education, Daily Stoic

4.55.3K Ratings

🗓️ 10 April 2023

⏱️ 10 minutes

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Summary

We say we want to get better. We say we want to learn about this or that. We say we want to make a change. We say we’ve decided to get serious.

But is this true?

The Stoics had an expression: Acta non verba. Deeds not words.

So it’s ironic that most of us say we want to make these improvements, but we can’t or won’t do the bare minimum.

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And in today's Daily Stoic Journal excerpt reading, Ryan discusses the importance of putting everything to the test in the same way that an assayer would test metals.

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0:00.0

Hey, prime members, you can listen to the Daily Stoke Podcast early and add free on Amazon music. Download the app today.

0:10.4

Welcome to the Daily Stoke Podcast. Each day we bring you a meditation inspired by the ancient Stokes illustrated with stories from history,

0:19.6

current events and literature to help you be better at what you do.

0:22.6

And at the beginning of the week we try to do a deeper dive, setting a kind of stoke, intention for the week,

0:28.6

something to meditate on, something to think on, something to leave you with, to journal about whatever it is you're

0:34.6

happened to be doing. So let's get into it.

0:39.6

Have you read the books? We say we want to get better. We say we want to learn about this or that. We say we want to make a change.

0:54.6

We say we've decided to get serious, but is this true? The Stokes had an expression, act a nonverba, deeds, not words.

1:06.6

So it's ironic that most of us say we want to make these improvements, but we can't or won't do the bare minimum.

1:12.6

Remete say to Daily Stoke Podcast, it's spoken to thousands of people whose finances are a mess who claim they want to get things together.

1:20.6

He asked them, okay, but have you read a single book about money? It's like that scene in the movie knocked up. You haven't even read the baby books.

1:29.6

If you want to do something about your anger problem, there are books you can read about that. We even have a course about it for Daily Stoke. If you want better habits, there are books about that. We also have a course about it.

1:39.6

If you want to get started with stoicism, there are books you can read about that. And of course, we have a course about that too.

1:45.6

If you want to be a better parent, we have a book about that too. One page a day, just like the Daily Stoke called the Daily Dad 366 Meditations on Parenting and Love and Raising Great Kids.

1:56.6

And there's a bunch of pre-order bonuses. We can grab it daily, dadbook.com. Look, is reading a book or taking a course going to solve all your problems? No. It's not going to immediately transform you. They are, after all, just words.

2:10.6

But reading those words is an action. It is a first step. It is a small but essential commitment. And that's why Catherine Heigel and so many expecting parents have gotten so upset with their partners who won't read the baby books.

2:24.6

If you want to get better, if you want to get serious, then get the books. Read them. And then take the next most important step, which is to apply them.

2:36.6

Although I actually found so many of the parenting books to be not very good, which is why I've been working for the last four years on the Daily Dad.

2:47.6

The idea being that you don't read a parenting book once and you're transformed, but it becomes part of your daily routine, a daily ritual, and like the Daily Stoke, like stoicism, by returning to it over and over again, you're making a commitment to yourself about your values, about who you want to be, about what's important to you.

3:06.6

Anyways, please do pre-order the book. It's a huge help, especially the earlier you do them. I'm really proud of this book. I just finished recording the audio book, so you can pre-order that also.

3:16.6

But if you want to sign numbered first edition from me, you can grab that at dailydadbook.com. It would mean a ton. Check it out.

3:24.6

Hello, it is Matt and Alice from British Scandal here, and we wanted to let you know that this season we are very excited to be covering the Cambridge Spies.

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