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🗓️ 14 December 2023
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When we practice forgiveness, studies show we can have healthier relationships, higher self-esteem, and less anxiety and depression.
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How to Do This Practice:
Find a comfortable place to begin the practice. Soften your gaze and take a few slow, deep breaths.
Imagine there is a light made of compassion, love and understanding all around you.
As the light comforts you, think of a person you would like to seek forgiveness from. Take note of any emotions that arise. Imagine sincerely apologizing to them.
Visualize a bridge connecting you and the individual. Know that while forgiveness is not always immediately accepted, you've taken the first step towards healing.
Turn your forgiveness towards yourself, breathing in love and compassion.
End this practice by reconnecting with your body and refocusing your gaze, remembering that the journey of forgiveness is ongoing.
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Shelly Tygielski is a trauma-informed mindfulness teacher based in Florida.
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More resources from The Greater Good Science Center:
Eight Keys to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/2s4hbz3a
The New Science of Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/5f2c7sfb
How to Overcome Barriers to Forgiveness: https://tinyurl.com/22zteuyj
The Power of Forgiveness at Work: https://tinyurl.com/mrx5hzvh
How to Build a More Forgiving Community: https://tinyurl.com/5frja2h2
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We're living through a mental health crisis. Between the stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, burnout — we all could use a break to feel better. That's where Happiness Break comes in. In each biweekly podcast episode, instructors guide you through research-backed practices and meditations that you can do in real-time. These relaxing and uplifting practices have been shown in a lab to help you cultivate calm, compassion, connection, mindfulness, and more — what the latest science says will directly support your well-being. All in less than ten minutes. A little break in your day.
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0:00.0 | I'm Dacker Keltner. Welcome to Happiness Break, where we take a few moments out of our day to do practices shown by science to improve your life. |
0:12.0 | Studies suggest that when we're more self-forgiving... by science to improve your life. |
0:12.6 | Studies suggest that when we're more self-forgiving, |
0:15.2 | we feel more worthy of love |
0:17.0 | and our relationships become more satisfied. |
0:19.5 | So today's meditation invites you to journey within, confronting past mistakes, |
0:25.0 | offering sincere apologies, and asking forgiveness from others and ourselves. |
0:30.2 | Our guide today is Shelly Tegesky, a trauma-informed mindfulness teacher. |
0:36.0 | Here's Shelly. In this equally exhilarating and challenging experience called life, being human means that moments of discord are inevitable. So today I'm going to be |
0:57.9 | leading a meditation about forgiveness. |
1:11.0 | Allow yourself to sit comfortably in a quiet place, |
1:14.0 | away from distractions. |
1:19.0 | I invite you to close your eyes or lower your gaze, whichever is more comfortable for you. |
1:27.4 | And begin by taking a deep long inhale in through your nose, filling your lungs entirely, then exhaling slowly through your mouth, |
1:37.0 | releasing any tension or stress you might be holding on to. The act of seeking forgiveness remains a powerful bridge to healing and harmony. |
2:00.0 | This meditation practice invites you to breathe deeply, |
2:20.6 | imagine that there is a gentle light surrounding you. |
2:30.0 | A light that represents love, understanding, and compassion. |
2:38.9 | Feel it warming and comforting you. Now bring to your mind's eye, a situation. |
2:50.0 | Now bring to your mind's eye a situation or a person to whom you seek forgiveness from. Visualizing this clearly and allowing any emotions to arise without judgment. feel them. feel them, acknowledge them, and then let them be. Imagine that you are standing before this person or recalling the situation. |
3:40.0 | And from the depth of your heart you are saying, |
3:45.0 | I am truly sorry. |
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