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WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Go Where the Love Is. Because Faking It Will Drain You.

WITH LOVE, DANIELLE

Danielle LaPorte

Self-improvement, Education

4.9 • 697 Ratings

🗓️ 27 June 2025

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Summary

It’s deeply natural to deeply desire deep connection. In fact, we are physiologically wired for it. But when our nervous system is out of whack, we struggle to find resonance—and end up in fawning, transactional patterns that drain our life force. 

This week, Danielle is talking about the connection between your nervous system and your relationships. Because when you balance your nervous system, you have better relationships. 

She’s sharing the how-tos for getting balanced and exploring what your nervous system has to do with your emotional intimacy with everyone in your life. 

In this episode:

  • The difference between resonant relationships and fawning—and why faking connection costs you your life force
  • How to know when you’re in true heart-to-heart connection
  • The guiding question to create resonance

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0:00.0

My loves, we are talking about relationships today.

0:04.4

I mean, everything is a relationship, but specifically talking about resonant relationships.

0:12.4

Authent intelligence, my favorite topic these days, because I prefer it over artificial intelligence.

0:19.2

I want to talk about cognition and feeling disconnected, and we're

0:25.6

going to talk about fawning, transactionality, and how to know when you're in a resonant

0:29.6

relationship. This is an open-hearted invitation to come into a new course that I've got going on

0:35.2

called Regulate to Relate. It's about the connection

0:38.6

between your nervous system and your relationships, because when you balance your nervous

0:43.7

system, you have better relationships. I'm giving you the how-toes for what most people

0:49.7

would call regulation, but I like the term balancing instead. It feels less clinical, it feels more

0:55.3

heart-centered. And what your nervous system has to do with your emotional intimacy, with everybody

1:02.7

in your life, and the looping effect of nervous system dysregulation and hard times, rough conversations that never get had and anxiety that

1:14.3

gets all jangled. It's just all this loop-to-hoopty. Better relationships, and by better, I mean

1:20.5

going where you are seen, loved, and heard, working on your communication skills, using that energy

1:26.6

of striving to connect more deeply with

1:29.4

people, help you have a more balanced nervous system. And prioritizing your wellness in this

1:38.2

way, balancing your nervous system, helps you have relationships that you want to have.

1:46.9

It's a beautiful, rich master class. If you want to have. It's a beautiful rich masterclass.

1:53.6

If you head to Danielle Laporte.com slash relate. You can see your options for coming in.

1:58.4

I can hold your hand over a two-month period and you can take the course within the heart-centered collective. Or if you're one of my people who I just surveyed

2:02.5

and 50% of you said you're not membership people, but you're course people and you want more

2:07.2

of what I'm putting out, then I created a masterclass for you. And you can binge it, you can do it

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