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Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

Giving Your Teen Freedom to Become an Adult (Part 1 of 2)

Focus on the Family with Jim Daly

Focus on the Family

Kids & Family, Society & Culture, Parenting, Relationships

4.74.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2023

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Psychologist Dr. Kenneth Wilgus offers parents a strategy of "planned emancipation" whereby they can help prepare their teens for adulthood by carefully and progressively withdrawing their control over key areas of their teen's life. (Part 1 of 2)

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0:00.0

Hey friends, check out the latest episode of my podcast, ReFocus with Jim Daley.

0:04.6

Author Tim Geigline will help us to honor America's spiritual heritage and influence the culture with faith and optimism.

0:12.1

Visit ReFocus with JimDaily.com.

0:14.9

So I knew I was grown up the day that I was taller than my mother and I could be calm in an argument with her where she was kind of all over the map.

0:24.2

I knew I was grown up when I had to pay for my own food on family vacation.

0:29.1

When I moved out of state and I didn't have a security blanket anymore.

0:32.2

The day we signed up papers for our first house.

0:35.2

I knew I was grown up when I had to start buying my own groceries.

0:38.4

When I was proposed to by my husband, when I moved out of my parents' house.

0:44.8

I'll never forget the day I got my driver's license.

0:47.6

I felt an incredible sense of freedom and independence.

0:51.9

Well, I wonder when you first felt like you're all grown up.

0:55.1

But we've all experienced certain situations where right-of-passage moments where we realize I'm part of the adult world.

1:01.2

But what about your kids?

1:02.8

They know what being a grown up is and as a parent are you intentionally getting them ready for adulthood.

1:09.4

These are important questions that we're going to be talking about today on Focus on the Family.

1:13.7

Your host is Focus President and author Jim Daley and I'm John Fuller.

1:17.6

The transition from childhood to adulthood can be one of the more challenging stages that families will experience.

1:24.0

It's almost like we can look back and go, I knew exactly where I was when I felt like the adult.

1:28.4

Or with your kids, I knew exactly when they felt like an adult, right?

1:33.0

As your kids enter the teen years, attention begins to build.

1:37.1

They want more independence, but you still want them to follow the rules and keep up with the things like homework and chores and stuff like that.

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