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I've never experienced it before.

I don't know, maybe it's because I'm quite nuts anyway.

So I think whoever I'm into with,

no one would dare. No one would dare.

I would actually kill you.

Welcome to Doing It with me, Hannah Whitten, where we talk all things, sex, relationships, dating and our bodies.

Hi everyone. Welcome back to doing it.

So in this episode, I got to sit down with another person who is in the online sex education space.

It is Alani. She is a sex and relationships blogger and writer. She is currently writing

her first book called The Big O, which you can currently pledge for on Unbound, and you have to

stick around until the end to hear our chat all about orgasms. Alani's work is specifically aimed at women and we

chat a bit about why men see the information that she is sharing as a threat. We talk about

stealthing, destigmatizing STIs and how active she is on Twitter and how she uses that platform

to spread awareness and also share the

stories of other women. It was an absolute pleasure to sit and chat with Alani about all

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