I believe those of the Olympian we should date. It's really hard when we our bodies are so unpredictable and they're all beautiful and they are all messy and things happen.

So I think that we should all look for the partners that are like your beautiful dude the way you are.

Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mark our sacred institutions. Betruise they call them in a fight on days.

You're listening to Sex with Emily. I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.

Today, what a fun show. We are putting the spotlight on some of our deepest insecurities. So we can work through them and be our true authentic selves.

Whether you're worried about your weight or nervous about telling someone you're like deepest, darkest secrets, you know, the more we try to hide those worries, the bigger they get.

And I invited my team on this show, which I loved. Everyone just sort of opened up. You've ever been sitting around with your... You probably... If you're sitting around with your team, you might not have such an in-depth conversation about, I don't know, your insecurities in the bedroom, but you know when you just get going.

That's what happened in this show. Turns out a lot of us are fighting a lot of the same demons and I think you're going to be able to relate.

We talk about our journeys with body image, our weight, balding, period sex, all the things. And then I work with them, you know, walk through how to work on each unique insecurity so you can learn to like and maybe even love those things about yourself that you think aren't lovable.

We also explore the difference between women's fears and men's fears and I know you're going to enjoy this show. Let's set an intention. So for each episode, you know, after hearing what the show is about, what do you want to get out of it?

It could be, wow, I want to hear how other people get through their insecurities.

My intention was to show you how with just a little bit of focus, a little bit of time, you can turn those insecurities around so you'll have more confidence, not only in the bedroom, but in your life. All right, survey, we have a new survey.

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All right. So Gab is my assistant and we've worked together for four months now. And we don't have a lot of time to talk. But one day she revealed this insecurity to me. We actually haven't talked about it since she just kind of dropped it. I mean, I could say she has a fear of vaginas.

Yeah, that's all I know. Yeah, like this is a nice way to be intro to sex with Emily. Hello Gab. You know, I might have heard me giggling in the background, but this is it. Yeah. So Gab, tell me about it because it's actually you're not alone with it because I actually have to tell you there is a fear. It's called Europe, Tophobia. And that is a fear. Like it's a phobia. I don't know if you have a full on phobia. So the difference between a phobia and just a fear of phobia is like it's a.

You know, life altering it impacts every area of your life. You're not able to do certain things, you know, fear of a go or phobia fear outside. You can't go outside ever like it's a whole thing to to get over that fear. And I don't know what about this fear. So what could you tell me what you know about it? When was the first time you remember feeling it.

So I guess so. So I would say it's more I want to I don't know if we would call it a fear. I know we talked about that earlier. Is it a phobia? Is it a fear? Is it just a not understanding and growing up with this whole idea that my vagina and all the

people in the vagina are just this weird gross questionable fact on at the bottom of a woman's body like who knows but growing up being around my friends like you know guys I grew up with a lot of guys like in the sports world working with a lot of ice hockey teams. And you know I would hear about the guys who just drop in they just go into the locker room. They didn't care who they were

in front of and then girls as well like I'd be in the locker room for field hockey and they would just be changing in front of everyone. But for some reason I guess growing up I just never had a love for my own vagina and I just thought it was a weird place. And that because of that I just never wanted to see anyone else's I

felt like it should be this private thing. Let me just give you some backstory here. There's a few reasons why this is interesting because we're for and I actually already have some ideas but the first thing is I think the first day that got was on the job I might have gotten

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