Get What You Want (In Bed)

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 25 June 2024

⏱️ 46 minutes

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Summary

Ever dated a mind reader who just gets you? …Chances are, probably not. Unfortunately for us, deep connections need deep communication skills. I mean, how can your partner know your needs if you don’t tell them? I know it’s not easy, though, and that’s why today’s throwback is all about articulating what you need, sexually and otherwise. The result? Way healthier relationship dynamics and hotter sex. You’re welcome! In this episode you’ll learn: What to do if you want your child to grow up with more positive sex messaging than you had How to deal with an emotionally detached partner Why you have to communicate to get the kind of touch you need in bed Show Notes: Join me for a Sexual Wellness Weekend in Canyon Ranch! Take the SWE Listener Survey Here! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Try the LELO DOT Travel Today! Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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0:00.0	If somebody has an active fantasy life, they typically do fantasize about past sexual
0:10.4	partners and so I do not think it's cheating.
0:13.3	But everyone gets to decide what cheating is
0:15.2	in their relationship, but someone can't tell you
0:17.4	that you're not allowed to fantasize about something.
0:19.7	Now, there's two kinds of fantasies.
0:21.4	Remember this, Doc.
0:22.2	There's the fantasies that we want to actually happen
0:24.0	in real life, that we want to share with the partner,
0:25.8	like I think it'd be fun to enact this.
0:27.7	And then there's fantasies that we just want to keep to ourselves.
0:30.4	And they're all okay.
0:33.0	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:36.0	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation
0:40.8	around sex.
0:42.0	Have you ever been in a relationship with someone who can read your mind and anticipate your needs 24-7?
0:48.0	And then, not only that, they fulfill them perfectly?
0:51.0	Yeah, me neither. The truth is deep relationships require deep
0:55.3	communication skills and the most important skill is this. Being able to
1:00.1	articulate what you need, sexually and otherwise.
1:04.0	The result, way healthier relationship dynamics and relationships.
1:08.8	So on today's Ask Emily Show,
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