Gemma Wilson: Chronic pain, fibromyalgia & ADHD
Women & ADHD
Katy Weber
4.9 • 685 Ratings
🗓️ 20 November 2023
⏱️ 60 minutes
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Summary
Episode 164 with Gemma Wilson.
“Women with ADHD live our lives on edge. We’re constantly thinking, Am I doing the right thing? Am I saying the right thing? Am I being inappropriate?”
Gemma is a 41-year-old mum of 3 from Newcastle upon Tyne in the north of England. She is a business owner and describes herself as “a perfectionist and over-achiever who won’t settle for anything less than what I deserve.”
Gemma is a listener of the podcast and she reached out to me because she wanted to share her journey through her ADHD diagnosis and its link with her diagnosis of fibromyalgia. There’s a significant co-morbidity between ADHD and fibromyalgia.
Gemma wrote to me: “I have been through a huge raft of experiences with different treatments to try and get to the root cause of my pain. I have been at the depths of despair with my mental and physical health and honestly thought I was destined for immobility and incapacity — but somehow, I’ve managed to find things that help.”
Gemma & I talk about what it’s like for her to live with chronic pain, a distressed nervous system, depression, anxiety, and ADHD, and how she’s been able to find a path through it all when it comes to self-advocacy, seeking help, and avoiding burnout.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey friends, it's Katie here. Have you spent your whole life wondering why things feel harder for you |
| 0:05.2 | than they do for everyone else? Do you struggle with motivation even for the things you actually want to do? |
| 0:10.6 | Are you exhausted even though it feels like you're not getting anything done? If you're nodding along, |
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| 1:00.7 | consult today. I am not unique in that. You are not unique in that. We all experience trauma |
| 1:08.2 | and we all experience significant events in our lives which can really impact |
| 1:14.0 | on our body's ability to function properly. |
| 1:20.6 | Hello and welcome to the women and ADHD podcast. I'm your host, Katie Weber. I was diagnosed |
| 1:27.1 | with ADHD at the age of 45, and it completely turned my world upside down. |
| 1:32.8 | I've been looking back at so much of my life, school, jobs, my relationships, all of it with this new lens, and it has been nothing short of overwhelming. |
| 1:42.8 | I quickly discovered I was not the only woman |
| 1:45.3 | to have this experience. And now I interview other women who, like me, discovered in adulthood |
| 1:50.4 | they have ADHD and are finally feeling like they understand who they are and how to best |
| 1:56.6 | lean into their strengths, both professionally and personally. Hello, hello. Before we begin, I would love to share with you this review from a listener |
| 2:05.7 | named Tums 3484 on the Apple Podcast platform in Canada. It's entitled Game Changer. |
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