Every week on The Moth podcast, we share stories that are funny, strange, heartbreaking, and above all, true.

I myself have been married for 56 years.

Unfortunately to four different women.

You can work out a whole lot of shit in the hours of Target

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so let's go back to when I first met them.

I was 20 years old, working at the Final Blue Hotel, working my way through college.

This is John Carlo Grande.

He's speaking about the time in March of 2012

when he was working at one of South Beach's most luxurious hotels.

Granda was a pool attendant.

I'm talking to some guests, and I noticed this woman behind me staring at me,

and she was noticeably drunk.

Granda says the woman, who he described as a hot cougar, was snapping pictures of him while he

worked, and so they began to speak.

She was just flirting with me, and then we started flirting back and forth, and then towards

the end of my work shift, she's like, hey, would you want to go back to my

hotel room?

And as a single 20-year-old, I'm like, yeah, of course.

And she's like, but my husband wants to watch.

And immediately, I thought it was a bit strange, and I backed off.

He said, oh, no, but he's not going to do anything.

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