And I'm Anytime stuff turns totally crazy in a relationship or politically.

There's always a couple of moments there that I think are common to any stuff went crazy kind of narrative.

One of those moments is going to be stuff went crazy kind of narrative.

One of those moments is going to be a moment where things with one action

flipped from how they've always been with norms and taboos and place and life is kind of as you expect it and then

something happens in that moment and now everybody realizes at once dang things are

never going to be the same maybe in my country in recent memory this would be 9-11.

Maybe your country has something like that as well.

Maybe in a relationship or on a smaller scale, somebody says words that can't be

unsaid. They violate trust in a way that it can't really be unviolated. Anytime stuff goes just bonkers though, there is that moment

where you realize, oh, it's on. Somebody crossed a line and that is not something that we can uncross.

That's one of the moments that always happens when stuff goes crazy.

The second moment that always happens when stuff goes crazy if you really get deep into it

is the moment where you start to lose track of how many atrocities have occurred

and I don't just mean literal atrocities you know it can be the kind of thing where it's a big fight

at work or church or on a team in a circle of friends and you got that

initiating moment where tension built up and somebody abandoned the norms and

crossed a line but then after that, unless it's

immediately stemmed, everybody starts crossing lines and eventually you

reach that second point in the crazy times where nobody can even remember how many horrible

things have now been done. Nobody can keep track of the number of times that a

vile thing that none of us ever would have done even once ever before the initiating incident.

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