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The Overwhelmed Brain

Gain Empowerment and Inner Strength by Accepting that Death Could Be The Outcome

The Overwhelmed Brain

Paul Colaianni: Emotional Abuse and Relationship Expert

Mental Health, Education, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.52K Ratings

🗓️ 1 December 2015

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

How bad can your panic and anxiety get? I had one panic attack in my life and it was at that moment a part of me died, opening up a new way of being. Nothing like panicking in the desert, having no money, a broken car, and losing the car and everything in it to set off an anxiety attack. The worst possible scenario was unfolding and I had to either accept and live with the consequences, or not accept what was happening and continue resisting what was absolutely unavoidable. When I finally panicked to the point where I felt like dying, I was able to release the resistance. I let go of thinking I had a choice, and suddenly choices didn't matter. I just accepted. And acceptance brought me peace. Do you resist or accept? Can you accept the worst possible thing that could happen? If you can... you'll be free. Sounds like a fun topic - I talk about that today!

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0:00.0

You are listening to the overwhelmed brain. Today's episode is brought to you by get out of the mess dot com quality attorneys at established law firms for about I don't know 20 bucks a month

0:12.1

Are you annoyed by affirmations?

0:14.0

Are you tired of that same old rehashed personal growth advice

0:19.0

that all seems to boil down to,

0:21.0

think positively and all your problems will go away? to then I want you to get ready. The overwhelmed brain is here to help you create the life

0:34.9

you want now. Hello, this is Paul Kolyani, host of the overwhelmed brain, the personal growth show for the critical

0:55.4

thinker.

0:56.4

On every episode, we'll talk about practical down-to-earth steps to help you improve your

1:02.1

mood and keep you sane in this powerful

1:05.4

journey we call life. I want to help you bridge the gap between your emotions and

1:09.9

reason causing you to discover why you do the things you do and what you can do to reach

1:15.1

higher levels of happiness and lower levels of stress and overwhelm.

1:20.0

I want to start and end today's show with today's quote.

1:26.0

I have quite a bit to say on it because it's a good quote and I'm going to read it to you now.

1:31.4

It's by Martha Beck and it's this. The process of spotting

1:37.1

fear and refusing to obey it is the source of all true empowerment.

1:45.0

You know, my mom lived with an alcoholic abusive man

1:50.0

for over 40 years of her life,

1:52.0

having to care for three kids of her life.

1:53.0

Having to care for three kids from her last marriage with my father,

1:57.0

my stepfather became my new father figure.

2:02.0

His aggressive,-of-control alcoholic binges put terror in all of us.

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