This is the virtue. Should you ditch him? Should you continue to date him if you are in

that situation? Like you think you like this guy and you're not really sure like, is

this such a big red flag that I should just move on? Hit us up. We throw your situation

out to Bert Show fan around the country and we'll let you know if you should ditch him

or date him. So you hit us up at thebercho.com. Dobby's got the email.

So the strangest thing happened to me in this new relationship and I'm really just a bit

stunned and not sure if this is a major red flag or actually something that can be a bit

of a relief. At first I was annoyed and really offended and then I became kind of confused

and now I still feel that way but logic is kicking in and I'm thinking it might not be

such a bad thing. I don't know. Keep going back and forth. I can really use y'all's opinions.

So I just started dating Brad in September. Obviously it hasn't been very long. However,

even though we haven't had the official talk, I'm pretty certain that neither of us are

seeing other people. I mean, I know I'm not and I haven't had much of a desire to either.

We're also together multiple times a week. So from my perspective, things are a bit serious.

The other day was Brad's birthday. We went out to dinner to celebrate. When we were at

dinner, I handed him a gift. He handed it right back to me and literally said, no thank you.

My response was, huh? It's your birthday gift. He went on to tell me that he doesn't do

gifts. I was really confused and I wasn't sure what that meant. I mean, who doesn't do gifts?

He said that he doesn't accept gifts because he doesn't plan to give gifts. He doesn't do gifts

in any relationship that he's in. He doesn't do gifts for friends, for family, etc. He said that

gifts are often more stressful for the giver and they're enjoyed by the receiver more. He said,

he finds the expectation of giving a gift that is of similar financial and sentimental value of

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