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Is she the A-Hull for telling her best friend, her marriage is doomed? And it's not so much, I think being honest with your best friend is the fact that she chose to do it at her friend's bachelorette party. Oh my god, you gotta do that before the engagement. Like once that ring is on, baby, it's a one-way trip to marriage town. Even after the ring is on? Like, yeah, you voiced your opinion and you think,

because there's always a chance they're going to break up.

And there's also always a chance

and engagement's going to break up. down. Even after the ring is on. Like, yeah, you voiced your opinion and you think, because there's always a chance they're

going to break up.

And there's also always a chance in engagement is going to break up.

Yeah.

They get engaged.

And that's a one and done conversation.

Either they're going to listen to you or they're not.

But they get engaged and be like, hey, here's how I feel as your friend, blah, blah, blah,

blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then after that, it's done.

Choosing to do it at the Bachelorette party is savage. It's dubious. No, I've had, it's dubious. It's diabolical because I've had that conversation before. And I told my friend, I said, listen, I'm going to say this once. I'm going to say it one time only. and I'm going to be unemotional about this

and I didn't go into some tirade.

I just listed off the facts

what I had seen and I said

I... time only and I'm going to be unemotional about this and I didn't go into some tirade.

I just listed off the facts, what I had seen and I said, I just want you to know this is what I am noticing. You can now take that and do with it what you will. But after that, hands off. Like now, now anything that happens is on you. So I think it's got to happen before the engagement. Your opinions are noted,

but I am interested to see how you feel after you hear what went down. I'm 27 and I've been best friends with Amy, who's 28, for years. She has been with this guy Jake for about three years and honestly,

he is a walking red flag. He is super controlling, jealous, always checking her location. And once he called

her nine times while we were just shopping at Target. Amy keeps defending him saying he's

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