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Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

From Our Friends: How To Take a Gap Year

Care and Feeding | Slate's parenting show

Slate Podcasts

Society & Culture, Kids & Family, Parenting

4.61K Ratings

🗓️ 4 July 2024

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

Hi listeners! We're off from the holiday but wanted to share an episode of another Slate show that we think you'll love: Leo is a high-achieving high school senior on the cusp of graduation. Growing up in a rigorous school environment he faced endless pressure to follow the expected track of attending an elite university and eventually securing a good job. Yet, Leo feels slightly unfulfilled and is curious what an alternative path might look like. On this episode of How To!, Carvell Wallace is joined by Abby Falik, founder of The Flight School, and organization dedicate to helping students and parents rethink and reshape their education. Abby shares her insights and experience guiding students through gap years so they find their own way. If you liked this episode check out: How To Parent Less Do you have a problem that needs solving? Send us a note at [email protected] or leave us a voicemail at 646-495-4001 and we might have you on the show. Subscribe for free on Apple, Spotify or wherever you listen. How To’s executive producer is Derek John. Joel Meyer is our senior editor/producer. The show is produced by Rosemary Belson and Kevin Bendis. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey friends, we're off on the fourth but wanted to share an episode of another slate show that we think you'll love.

0:06.0

It's from our colleagues at Howto.

0:08.0

They'll tell you the story of Leo, a high-achieving high school senior on the cusp of graduation.

0:14.5

He's always been pushed to attend four-year college and get a job, but Leo feels unfulfilled and

0:20.0

is curious what an alternative path might look like.

0:23.3

So this episode of Howto, Carvel Wallace is joined by Avi Falick,

0:27.8

founder of the Flight School, an organization dedicated to helping students and parents take control of their education and use

0:34.7

those gap years to find their own way.

0:37.3

We'll be back on Monday, but till then we hope you enjoyed this episode of How-To.

0:42.2

I think my biggest anxiety about taking Gapier was sort of just like

0:48.1

would it be a good use of my year? Would I feel like bored to no end, or would I get as much You know, when I was about 21 years old and in college, I went overseas to work for a theater company in the summer.

1:16.0

And when I got back to New York in the fall, it was time to register for classes in my senior year.

1:20.0

But I just didn't. It wasn't like I had a plan. I just kind of sat in my apartment as the

1:26.9

deadline for registration came and went I ended up spending a year working two jobs

1:32.1

One is a bike messenger one is a fundraiser for a social justice organization,

1:36.6

and just eked out of living in New York. It was a wild time, weird and exhausting. I had bike accidents, I got hit by taxis, I showed up to work at 6 a.m. I worked

1:47.1

14 hour days sometimes. When it was all over there was really one main thing I had learned. Life out here is hard. I learned that work is real and

1:57.6

college was actually a privilege and an opportunity and if I didn't want to spend the rest of my life

2:02.4

bleeding on the

2:03.2

pavement in Midtown Manhattan I'd better take advantage of my education.

2:08.6

But it's also hard to know that sometimes until you go through it.

2:12.1

And that was me, at age 21.

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