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The following content is not suitable for children. Spicing it up.

Ooh, what are we going to talk about all the external things that people use and do?

Couples do lots of things to introduce novelty, pornography, vibrators, toys, drugs.

Oh, my gosh. Who knows? All right, we're going to help couples today. We're going to take it away. Okay.

Take it away.

Welcome to For Play Radio, couples in sex therapy.

I'm Lori Watson, your sex therapist.

And I'm George Fallon, your couples therapist.

And we are passionate about talking about sex and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.

Our mission is to help our audience develop a healthier relationship to sex that integrates the mind, the heart, and the body.

All right, Lori.

So we're always assessing and try to help couples have conversations around things that are going to be gas pedals and improve the levels of engagement in their sexual relationship or breaks, things that turn them off and make them not want to have sex.

And this is just another category, right?

External factors, things outside their immediate relationship

that often couples bring to spice things up, but sometimes can really dampen things down.

Yeah, that's for sure. And the same thing can be either a gas pedal or a break, right? I mean,

not necessarily generic categories of good and bad things.

People just feel differently about them. And sometimes a couple. Sometimes the partners feel

differently about the same thing. Oftentimes, what's a gas pedal for one is a break for the other.

And they can't talk about it. That just mathematically a problem yep yep so that what

we're hoping to do today is just to open up some space to kind of talk about what could work

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