Finding Your Fantasy w/ Elle Chase

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.2 • 6.7K Ratings

🗓️ 12 July 2024

⏱️ 49 minutes

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Sexual fantasies give us a window into what we need: a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person. But what if you’re one of those people who’s like: “I don’t know how to fantasize, Emily?” Then look no further than sex educator and author of Curvy Girl Sex Elle Chase. Elle joins me to talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your fantasies say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality: finding a friend with benefits. In this episode you’ll learn: How to find your fantasies and how to talk to your new partner about them What to say to a partner who thinks butts are gross How to respond to a partner who desperately wants to watch you have sex with another (but you’re not so into it) Show Notes: The Yes! No! Maybe? List! SHOP WITH EMILY! (free shipping on orders over $99) The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure Shop VIIA Today and use code "EMILY" at checkout for 15% off your order More Elle Chase: Website | Instagram Want more? Sex With Emily: Home Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok Let’s text: Sign Up Here Want me to slide into your inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. See the full show notes at sexwithemily.com.

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0:00.0	Having immediate chemistry is not always a tell-tale sign.
0:08.0	Chemistry can grow and you have to really enjoy being with the person.
0:13.3	And if you're just not attracted to them,
0:15.0	you can't ever see being attracted to them,
0:16.9	that's one thing.
0:17.5	But if you're like, yeah, they're really nice.
0:19.8	I really enjoy being with them.
0:21.0	I'll try a second date.
0:22.3	I don't feel the chemistry, but I'll try a second date. I don't feel the chemistry but I'll try a second date and I used to have this thing where it was like a three date rule. You go on a date with someone that you like for three dates and if you still don't feel a chemistry then done.
0:32.0	You're listening to and if you still about feel chemistry, then, okay, done.
0:34.0	You're listening to Sex With Emily.
0:36.0	I'm Dr. Emily, and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:46.0	Sexual fantasies, what are they all about? Well, they give us a window into what we need, maybe it's a type of touch, a type of power, or even a type of person.
0:52.4	But what if you're one of those people who's like, I don't know how to
0:56.5	fantasize Emily? I don't have any fantasies. Well today's episode is here to help you.
1:02.0	Because listen, having a rich fantasy life
1:04.6	is part of being sexually healthy overall.
1:07.1	It's important.
1:08.3	I'm joined by sex educator and author of curvy girl sex,
1:11.8	L Chase. We talk about cultivating your erotic daydreams, what your
1:16.2	fantasy say about your desire style, and how to turn a common fantasy into a reality.
1:22.2	Finding a Friends with benefits.
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