I regularly will have moments where I'm in the house. A thing has happened with a kid, right? It's like the, all right, I have to pause my whole day now to address this issue. So, you know, I'm in the hallway to try and make it a private moment with this child so the other ones are somewhere else and sometimes I'll use my imagination that moment go Jesus help me do this well because I don't know the fruit of this moment or its impact and I'll imagine it how many lives will be impacted by this child in their adulthood

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This is family life today. So one of the things I'm still embarrassed about when our when we were

confession time I guess it sort is I think our listeners maybe have heard me say this

maybe one time because I'm embarrassed so I don't say it very often but when we were first married

first year at the University of Nebraska as the chaplain for the Nebraska's cornhusker sports teams

I would be introduced, you know, hey this is Dave Wilson, he's with athletes in action and he's our chaplain of team.

It was the first time in my life I was introduced as like this is what you do

previously I was always introduced Dave Wilson he's the quarterback football team

he's been all conference he was all married and always had this thing and I actually one day came home I'm so embarrassed say this after

months of this and I said to Anne listen nobody here knows that I was like something

I think his words were like these people think I'm a loser nobody here knows that I was like something a year ago.

These people think I'm a loser.

Yeah.

And so what I said to her, I can't believe I said this.

See you talk about insecurity, I said,

so I can't say, hey know last year to last four years I was

on a full sky you know I was something so hey when I'm introduced could you just

drop it in I literally ask her.

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