“Father, Why Is Mother Not Answering” — Inside Kohberger’s Odd Family Texts
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Tony Brueski
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🗓️ 21 August 2025
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
On the morning of the Idaho student murders, Bryan Kohberger placed a 36-minute call to his mother. Later that same morning, while driving back toward the crime scene, he called her again — this time for nearly an hour. By the end of the day, he’d spent more than three hours on the phone with his parents, addressing them in oddly formal terms: “Mother” and “Father.”
In this revealing conversation, former FBI Special Agent Robin Dreeke breaks down what those calls could mean. Were they simply part of Kohberger’s daily routine, or were they a desperate bid for emotional validation after committing an unthinkable crime? Why does his choice of words — “Father, why is Mother not answering?” — sound so detached? And could this be part of a broader pattern where routine phone contact was his emotional safety net, even in the most chaotic moments of his life?
We explore the psychology of an accused killer leaning on the one person who might never question him, the role of family routines in maintaining a façade of normalcy, and what wasn’t said during those calls. This isn’t about demonizing a parent — it’s about understanding the behavioral dynamics between a murder suspect and his closest emotional anchor in the hours after the crime.
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| 0:00.0 | This is Hidden Killers with Tony Bruske. Here now, Tony Bruske. |
| 0:06.3 | It's one thing for a murder suspect to have a close relationship with their parents. |
| 0:11.4 | It's another to place three hours of phone calls to your mother within moments of butchering four people. |
| 0:18.9 | But that's exactly what we've just learned about Brian Koeberger. |
| 0:23.4 | Newly unsealed records don't just confirm the calls we've already heard rumors about. They put |
| 0:28.6 | timestamps, durations, and frequency to them. A 36-minute call not long after returning home |
| 0:34.9 | to Pullman. A 54-minute call later that morning while he was driving back towards the crime scene. |
| 0:40.3 | More calls throughout the day, all adding up to more than three hours of contact with one person. |
| 0:47.8 | Mommy. |
| 0:50.7 | We're not here to demonize a parent for answering the phone not at all but what does this pattern |
| 0:58.5 | tell us about brian coberger is it just habits the way some people text their spouse or parent |
| 1:05.4 | every day or is it something more calculated or more desperate was he seeking comfort trying to normalize his day after doing something horrifying? |
| 1:14.2 | Or was this part of a subconscious need to be validated to hear the one voice that would never challenge him? |
| 1:21.5 | And then there's the way he referred to them. |
| 1:24.6 | Mother, father, not mom or dad in his phone contacts, in his messages and |
| 1:30.5 | conversations. On one occasion, he texted his mother, father, why is mother not answering the phone? |
| 1:37.8 | It's such a clinical, formal way to speak about the two people closest to you. It borders on |
| 1:42.3 | theatrical. Some might say Norman Bates-esque. |
| 1:47.2 | Is this an intentional affectation, a reflection or emotional distance, or a symptom of a mind that |
| 1:56.1 | lives in labels rather than relationships? Former FBI Special Agent and Chief of the Counterintelligence Behavioral Analysis Program |
| 2:02.9 | Robin Drake joining us. |
| 2:04.6 | He spent years dissecting the behaviors of manipulators, spies, and predators. |
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