Fan Mail Friday #63 | Lady Boner Killer

The Art of Charm

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Health & Fitness, Education, Business

4.7 • 11K Ratings

🗓️ 20 May 2016

⏱️ 35 minutes

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Time for Fan Mail Fridays, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. In this episode: Is there a polite way to snap your friend out of a need for attention from the opposite sex and get them to see they're awesome as they are? Why is it sometimes so hard to stay away from people we clearly know are wrong for us -- like the narcissists Kim Seltzer has discussed on the show before? A relationship seems to be going well until the other party backs out when you set boundaries. Are we supposed to constantly put ourselves out there no matter how many times we get rejected? What are the chances of having a successful relationship with someone who is much older than you? How can you get your otherwise perfect partner to be more vocal in the bedroom? We get some good feedback for advice given regarding how to disclose a history of breast cancer and reconstruction to a new romantic interest in FMF 61. What kind of memories do you hold on to? Next time you find yourself only remembering the negatives, balance it out with positives. Here's Jordan's video: How to Retrain Your Brain to Recognize Positive Outcomes. Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! Show notes at http://theartofcharm.com/podcast-episodes/fan-mail-friday-63-lady-boner-killer/ HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Time for fan mail Friday. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason and with Kim Seltzer
0:06.0	Hello
0:07.1	We'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right if you're new to the art of charm
0:13.4	Podcasts this isn't the best place to start most of our content is more in-depth and longer format
0:18.7	So check out the best of at the art of charm.com slash best or the fundamentals toolbox at the art of charm.com
0:24.6	slash toolbox. That's where we've got the fundamentals of body language
0:28.6	nonverbal communication negotiation networking attraction dating all that stuff that we teach here at the art of charm
0:34.0	And we'll send all of that to your inbox if you text charmed that's CH-R-M-E-D to 3 3 4 4 4 all right here we go
0:42.7	Hello AOC. I've been listening to your podcast for a few months and I really like what I'm hearing
0:46.9	I've looked for advice on this topic, but I've been disappointed so I want to hear your thoughts
0:51.3	Basically, I have a friend from college who is constantly talking about men
0:54.6	It varies from not being over her ex to the barista at the coffee shop initiated prolonged eye contact
1:00.2	I think he likes me primarily the latter. I try to be a supportive friend
1:04.3	But she is too shy to take my advice to ask any of them on a date or to try a real online dating site as opposed to dumb excuses like Tinder
1:11.4	I wish you could see how awesome of a person she is even when she is not getting the male attention that she's looking for
1:17.6	I want to help but she drives me nuts. I can steer conversations away from the topic
1:22.3	But living in different parts of the country means we mainly text and I can tell she isn't interested in catching me up on other topics
1:29.5	Is there a polite way to snap her out of it? She is sensitive and easily offended whereas I am brash and forthright
1:35.5	Does that mean I have to wait for her to grow up on her own? Thank you for your time and cheers Aaron
1:40.6	Yeah, Ike's Kim. I need to help with this one because for me
1:44.2	I just I don't have friends like that if I had a guy friend that was telling me only about his dating life
1:50.4	I would get bored so fast and I would just keep changing the subject until they either took the hint or I would probably just stop answering their calls
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