Fan Mail Friday #137 | Toxic Insecurity

The Art of Charm

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🗓️ 20 October 2017

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Time for Fan Mail Friday, where we'll be answering your questions and dropping some knowledge and feedback to help you kick the weekend off right. This week, Kimberly Seltzer joins Jordan and Jason to set your questions right and help you course correct. Let's cut to it! In this episode: How can you trust a potential future partner when you've been cheated on in the past? A recap on the "smizing" exercise for those who think they have a resting face that looks unfriendly -- or perhaps too friendly. How do you overcome a crippling fear of texting? Are you a bad friend for giving good advice? Should it be a deal breaker when your partner is too insecure to let you have friends? How do you tell your hubby they're getting chubby without being offensive? Documentary of the Week: The Vietnam War Quick shoutouts to: Jayden Wilcox Bonar (who's eight years old and listens with his dad) and Jacob Larsen! Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@theartofcharm.com! Check out Jordan's (@TheArtofCharm) other show: The Forbes List, and Jason's (@jpdef) other show: Grumpy Old Geeks. Also be sure to check out Kim's (@SeltzerKimberly) new podcast: The Charisma Quotient! Full show notes at https://theartofcharm.com/fmf137/ Find out more about the team who makes The Art of Charm podcast here! Does your business have an Internet presence? Now save a whopping 50% on new webhosting packages here with HostGator by using coupon code CHARM! Take the Art of Charm Challenge by clicking here, or text AOC to 38470. We'll take you step by step to becoming better at making personal and professional connections, becoming a better networker, increasing your personal social capital and charisma. This is for both men and women! HELP US SPREAD THE WORD! If you dig the show, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review! This is what helps us stand out from the crowd and help people find the credible advice they need. Review the show in iTunes! We rely on it! http://www.theartofcharm.com/mobilereview Stay Charming! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Art of Charm. I'm your host Jordan Harbinger. I'm here with producer Jason
0:12.0	DeFilippo and Kim Celter. And here at the Art of Charm we may not have all the answers.
0:17.1	So I bring in Kim and throw her under the bus for all the questions. I think are too
0:21.4	tough for me. And but then we'll do our best to get you answers advice and good old fashioned
0:26.2	discussions slash admonishment slash tough love slash horse play. But I had a weird weekend.
0:33.3	You know, I was in Vegas right before that whole shooting thing. So here I am not in Vegas.
0:39.8	And safe and sound and back to work. And my friends were stuck at the Mandalay Bay for like eight
0:46.2	hours on the floor. Oh my gosh. Oh my god. I can't even imagine. Yeah, it was a it was tough. And I
0:53.9	I spent a lot of the evening updating people in our Facebook group because a lot of us were there
1:00.0	for an event. So a lot of people were at the foundation room upstairs Mandalay Bay, you know,
1:04.3	and there were a lot of other people that are around it. What I noticed is a lot of people
1:09.3	still don't know that Twitter is the best up to the minute news outlet because it's full of
1:14.6	crap. And they also don't know how to sift for credible accounts. And so I had friends who were
1:20.4	online buddies who are like police scanner people and they're just listening to the
1:23.7	scanners and they're updating in certain feeds. And then I'm relaying that information
1:27.6	to the other event attendees and making sure that everyone's safe. And there were people.
1:32.4	I thought, oh, this is kind of a silly waste of time, I guess, but it makes me feel a little
1:35.5	better and who knows. And then the next day, a lot of people were like, yeah, we were stuck in a car
1:39.4	or we were stuck in this place and we had bad reception. So we were only looking at your feed
1:44.7	for updates because there was so much noise coming in and the news agencies, of course,
1:49.4	you know, they have a blog update that's two paragraphs along that comes out two hours later.
1:52.9	It's like, hey, there's a shooting no further updates yet. So it turned out to be a very useful
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