What's up everybody welcome back to a couple things with Sean and Andrew podcast all about couples and the things they go through today

We have probably one of our favorite interviews. We have done yeah with Richard and Linda Ayers if you don't know the Ayers

They are legends and this parenting marriage space. They've written over 60 books on these topics

They've been all across the media. They were even on Oprah. You may you may be familiar with that name

I just just a little she's a little local news outlet

But anyway, they've been doing this for years and we have so much to learn from them

They've put so much thought into this as you could probably guess from all the books they've written

And so we're really excited that they came in person and sat down with us as parents of toddlers

We ask ourselves every day. How do we raise good humans tiny little humans that have a soul and have a heart and have values and morals and

Linda and Richard actually have an answer to that. Yeah, it's pretty amazing

What they've done and what they've built and they've kind of laid out this whole infrastructure on how to build a family economy

So we're talking about how can you teach your kids to be responsible with resources they've been giving

Build a family government. So how do you enforce some type of discipline in the family structure and then also building family traditions

Which is you know the things that I think as we grow up we

Reflect on we're nostalgic about their kind of anchors and time and milestones that kind of give a family

It's unique identity and zooming out from that doing all of those things while instilling values in the process

And I think forming this family infrastructure is important because

It's really cool to think that Sean has unique talents gifts and abilities and confidence in certain areas of life

Right like you were fortunate enough to stumble into gymnastics and feel really confident in that and now you've transitioned to this other thing and feel really confident as an

Individual but I think that's rooted in

Having that individual confidence is rooted in having a strong family culture that's really clear really explicit like

We know what we are about as East right?

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