Hello, Nurturus. Today we go to Nebraska, where we meet a family of six females. The family

consists of two moms and two sets of twin girls. Mom Julie is into murder podcasts and

describes herself as a sarcastic comedian. For Valentine's Day, mom Susan, affectionately

referred to as Mary Poppins, set the table with heart-shaped napkins and served heart-shaped

pizza. At Christmas, the family ate KFC in honor of what they learned was a Japanese holiday

tradition. Sounds idyllic. Their question for me, we have a loving home, but the girls

are already mean to us and to each other. How can we inoculate them against future

estrangement? At the end of our session, I'll introduce untranslatable words about being

kind to your mouth. Let's dive in. First, a disclaimer. What you are about to listen

to is not a professional counseling session. Each episode is a one-time conversation and

the advice I offer does not constitute psychological treatment or services substitute for professional

diagnosis, intervention, or behavioral health care. In order to protect their privacy,

our guests have been given pseudonyms and some personal details have been changed.

If you have concerns about your child's well-being or your own, seek out guidance from a

medical or mental health professional, good places to start, your child's pediatrician,

the counseling staff at your child's school, and the American Psychological Association's

comprehensive guide to finding resources in your state. And now, onto the fun.

We got this. One day we'll look back and laugh for. Yeah, let me try. We got this. We got this.

We got this. In the meantime. We got this. We got this. We got this. We got this.

Welcome, Susan and Julie. I'm so happy to have you on the show this morning. The first thing

I'd like to do because you have two sets of twin girls. You have Elizabeth and Dorothy

who are 10 and Millie and Johanna who are eight. Is that correct? It is. Okay. So I have a list

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