I grew up both in a family and the culture where having multiple partners and not

being emotionally committed. it's normalized.

I've learned through my life that going for the safe person is the safest option for me and when I ever have been after something that is

exciting I end up getting her. I have been married for less than two years. My husband is one of those safe people.

I have two questions. The first one is how can I forgive people around me when I was growing up and especially my mother who didn't give me the best relationship example and second is how can I

heal this so it doesn't affect the current relationship I am in? Hi, I'm Johanna Ferreira, content director of Pop Sugar Juntos. Juntos is all about celebrating Latinay culture, pride, or many intersectional identities and joy.

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Conamol Johanna. Konamaljohana. Pick another one.

And Pissamos?

What do you want to add as you hear it now?

I obviously I'm old enough to make decisions and recognize that those experiences were the choice of other people.

But I don't know how deep and rooted these things are inside of me that I keep trying to go to the other side. I keep it.

Let me ask you because you make a lot of allusions and I don't really know I can guess but I may guess wrong. So if it's okay with you,

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