You ever been in a spot where you've got a difficult confrontation, maybe that's too

strong a word, a conversation, let's say, that needs to happen and really everything

is stuck until you have this conversation, but it's hard and the situation is one that's

on a razor's edge and you know it could even come down to just the moment and how things

feel and what mood or mindset the person you're talking with is in, as you've been there,

I mean, presumably you've all been there, I've certainly been there many times, but let

me stretch it further, have you ever then mustered all of your nerve and courage, you thought

about what you're going to say and you got it all mapped out in your head and you go

to talk with this person and this doesn't feel right, you can't really put your finger

on why, but this is just not the shrewd moment, it's not the right moment to broach the thing

I need to broach and you size it all up and sure you mustered your courage and sure

you put in the work and everything, but it's not right, a board, a board, a board, a board

and you just call the whole thing off and you decide you're going to wait for another

opportunity in the future.

I bet most of you can relate to that, some things in life are a little more objective,

but some things in life are subjective and require a little bit of touch and a little

bit of feel and my guess would be even that the people who you and I both know where

it seems like everything always works out for them, their relationships, pan out, business

stuff, pans out, these things just land the right way, I bet that those people have

got a really good sixth sense, a really good intuition about the kind of scenario that

I just described and I bet they've got super hyper overly developed metaphorical antennae

that are out when they're in that kind of situation to figure out if now's the time

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