4.8 • 725 Ratings
🗓️ 2 March 2022
⏱️ 53 minutes
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Which famous Washington D.C. members-only club is secretly filled with sex workers? Which politicians under Trump regularly visited rub and tugs? Which drug-abusing hotel heir brought an escort to Miami just to watch Wheel of Fortune with him?
I'm deeply annoyed by the conflation of all prostitution with sex trafficking, and the ongoing narrative that women who exchange physical & emotional intimacy for money were either forced into it or chose the profession as a result of severe trauma. In actuality, there's a subset of the industry filled with confident, empowered, and intelligent women earning six to seven figures by consensually, and literally, f*cking the patriarchy. It's my honor to share their perspectives this week.
Our anonymous contributors (and the beautiful Aspen Banks twitter: @aspen__banks) are or were high-end escorts in New York, Chicago, London, Singapore, Toronto & Montreal. Most have forgone agencies to work independently, advertising online to a global audience of wealthy and powerful men looking for a safe space and real connection. Our escorts' stories range from vulnerable to wildly kinky, but almost all agree that the work is, surprisingly, more emotional than sexual.
Some of our escorts thoroughly enjoy the sex that does happen and some despise it; some have traditional relationships outside work, and others can’t make it happen. Some girls love the industry while others say it’s ultimately destructive. None are sure whether or not it's worth giving up for a more "normal" life. At the end of the day, sex work is WORK and sex workers are WOMEN. They are daughters and sisters. DECRIMINALIZE IT!
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0:00.0 | Hello, everyone. It's another beautiful day in the apocalypse. Welcome back to your weekly hit of |
0:25.7 | black market medicine, or as I sometimes like to say, a profound spiritual awakening in the form |
0:32.7 | of an average white woman's podcast called Tales of Taboo. My name is Ali Weiss for those of you who are new here. |
0:39.5 | I am a downtown New York Z-List actress, writer, professional conversationalist who is obsessed |
0:45.8 | with all people, experiences, careers, and ideas outside the bounds of what society considers |
0:52.5 | traditionally acceptable or accessible or quote unquote |
0:58.0 | normal. So each week I invite my audience and their friends and sometimes even their friends of friends |
1:05.5 | to share their unconventional life stories behind the shield of complete anonymity. So the result of that is |
1:13.7 | half actually important investigative journalism and half fluffy daytime television. |
1:20.5 | And producing it is the absolute honor of my life. This week, we are talking about high-end escorts. And I feel really strongly about this, |
1:31.7 | because I absolutely despise this widespread idea that every woman who openly pursues a career |
1:40.0 | in the sex industry must be deeply damaged and traumatized, either sexually or emotionally. |
1:48.9 | Like it's this idea that only a woman who lacks respect for herself would monetize her sexuality. |
1:56.4 | And look, of course this can be a motivating factor. |
2:00.5 | Of course, women with damaged self-esteem make |
2:03.8 | controversial decisions regarding sex. But it's really not that different from the way that women who |
2:11.8 | are sexually and emotionally traumatized choose to pursue careers as models or actresses or housewives of rich, |
2:22.8 | but like absentee or even abusive men. Monetizing sexuality to overcome trauma is everywhere |
2:31.1 | if you know what to look for. It's just that in the sex industry, it's overt and sometimes literal, rather than the way |
2:41.8 | that it's implied in entertainment and advertising. |
2:47.0 | And what I'm excited for you to hear from this week's anonymous, actually with one non-anonymous |
2:53.3 | contributor, is that many of these women became escorts for the same reason that people decide to |
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