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The Mental Healness Podcast

Escaping a Cult: 28 Years of Brainwashing with Peter Young

The Mental Healness Podcast

Lee Hammock

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

What is the difference between a narcissistic partner and a cult leader? As it turns out, almost nothing. In this powerful episode, Lee Hammock (Self-Aware Narcissist) sits down with Peter Young, a survivor of a tiny but destructive religious cult led by a man known as "Uncle Robert."

Peter’s story is a chilling look at how high-control groups use "The Cult of One" tactics to destroy marriages, alienate children, and turn a person’s life inside out. For 28 years, Peter was trapped in a cycle of psychological isolation and spiritual abuse that cost him everything—including his relationship with his five children. Now, he’s sharing the "unmasking" moment when he finally saw the truth. Whether you are recovering from a group cult or a "one-on-one" cult (a toxic marriage), Peter’s journey from brainwashing to freedom is a masterclass in reclaiming your mind.

In this episode, we discuss:

  • The "Uncle Robert" Playbook: How one person can dismantle an entire family.

  • The Slow Brainwash: Why smart, capable people fall for high-control tactics.

  • Narcissistic Parallels: Comparing cult leadership to the "Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse."

  • The Cost of Control: Dealing with the alienation of children and the loss of 28 years.

  • Breaking the Spell: How Peter finally opened his eyes and escaped.

About Our Guest:Peter Young is the author of the Amazon best-selling memoir, "Stop The Tall Man, Save The Tiger." He now speaks out about the dangers of small, destructive religious groups and helps survivors find their way back to reality.

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Transcript

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1:01.1

What is going on, beautiful folks?

1:03.2

Welcome to another episode of the Mental Healingness podcast with your favorite.

1:06.3

Diagnosed artist is me, Mr. Lee Hammack, Mental Hills and myself.

1:09.5

Today, we're talking about cult dynamics, y'all, and I have a very, very special guest for y'all. We have a former sports broadcaster and best-selling author of Stop the Tallman, Save the Tiger, Mr. Peter Young. What's going on? Peter, are you doing today? Lee, I'm doing great. Thanks for having me on your podcast. Thanks for coming on.

1:28.0

I'm super excited to talk to you today. So just tell the folks a little bit about yourself. So I always give the Reader's Digest version. I grew up in New Jersey was going to be the next Larry Bird, and that didn't happen. So then I got into coaching and I was going to be the next Mike Shoshchewski, John Wooden, and that didn't happen. And then I got into sports broadcasting and I was going to be the next Bob Costas. And that didn't happen. And then I unwitting got sucked into a cult when I married into it and kind of destroyed my marriage, my family. But I recovered and wrote a book. It is an Amazon bestseller. So I'm not trying to be the next Louis Lomor or John Steinbeck or John Grisham. Just finally Lee trying to be the best version of me, Peter Young. That's great. That's great to hear. I know you said trying to be Larry Bird and stuff like that. I thought it was funny because I heard that if one thing fails, try something else, right? This doesn't work. I'll try something else. And it's always a good mindset to have though. Like, so one thing doesn't work, there's always other things to pursue. And I'm glad you end up, you know, do you feel like you found your calling with the writing? Oh, I do. Yeah. So, you know, I kind of consider myself a storyteller. And that's what a good sports broadcaster will do. He doesn't kind of dominate the game, but he tells the story of the game and the athletes. And so that's what I do as a writer. I'm a storyteller trying to become a better writer. Okay. That's amazing right there. So you said you've married the love of your life and it somehow wounded you up in a cult.

2:54.8

How do we get there?

2:56.5

Yeah, good question.

2:57.4

So I called her page in my book.

3:00.1

Met her back in the fall of 1996, a little old Pocatello, Idaho.

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