Episode 672: Recognizing and Correcting "Spillover" with Cyndi Doyle

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4.9 • 933 Ratings

🗓️ 1 August 2022

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

On today's episode, Dennis speaks with Licensed Professional Counselor and Author, Cyndi Doyle about navigating relationships for couples in law enforcement. Cyndi also speaks about the negative effects of "Spillover", what it is and how to correct it as well as overcoming fear and showing up 100% for your spouse. You can also learn more in her book "Hold the Line".

Purchase her book here: https://www.amazon.com/Hold-Line-Protecting-Enforcement-Relationship/dp/0578828820 or holdthelinebook.com

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0:21.8	One. cop. You're trying to be a street cop?
0:36.0	What would you want to talk about? I mean, I can talk about, so I can talk about you said that you didn't want to talk about the spillover,
0:40.0	you had something about spillover,
0:42.0	did you have about conditioning and how that happened?
0:45.2	Spillover. So how the conditioning on the job comes home and impacts the family.
0:53.4	Well, do spillover.
0:54.4	That sounds good.
0:55.3	Because basically, that's what initiated all of my
1:01.2	wanting to figure out what was going on because I kept seeing all these changes happening in my
1:07.1	relationships and in other relationships with officers was because I was like, I don't understand
1:11.9	something's different because, you know, it's that big reaction.
1:17.0	It's like at work, they were able to hold it all together, right? So working with a citizen or the general public at work, they know how to show up, they're kind, they can be reasonable. They come home and they're like reactive.
1:36.4	And that was one of my biggest, like what the heck is happening?
1:41.0	How come my friends would say,
1:43.4	you know, he's perfectly fine at work,
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