So we have some specific ideas for you of sexy ways to initiate it.

Wait, so what you're saying is that it's not like,

Hey, you want to do some mutual masturbation?

Wait, I don't know.

Where's Apple?

I don't know. Okay, we're good. Sorry. That was no good.

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Today, we're talking about one of the sexiest things that you can do in the bedroom

that you're probably not doing.

And that is mutual masturbation.

So if you don't know what we're talking about,

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