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Episode 58 - Sharon Lopatka: The Woman Who Dreamt of Being Tortured to Death

RedHanded

Wondery | RedHanded

True Crime

4.518.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 August 2018

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

This week Hannah and Suruthi delve into the dawn of the web, following the case of Sharon Lopatka, a woman who fantasised about being tortured to death. One day Sharon had enough and decided to make her fantasy a reality; she met her dream man online - a man who dreamt of torturing women.

Eventually Sharon was found buried in a shallow grave, but the state of her remains left many unanswered questions about what really happened to her...


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0:00.0

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0:20.0

I'm Hannah. I'm Sruti. And welcome to Redhanded. Can a homicide ever be consensual?

0:27.0

And if it can, what separates a consensual homicide from an assisted suicide?

0:33.0

We're back at the dawn of the internet this week and we have been here before with our German cannibal friend,

0:38.0

Armin Meibos and if you haven't listened to that episode, here is a quick summary.

0:42.0

Armin really, really wanted to eat a person. But the key was that the person had to want it.

0:49.0

That's what he got off on the consenting eating of a person.

0:52.0

So through 90s internet chat rooms, he found his willing victim burnt branders. Then he killed him,

0:59.0

chopped him up and ate him over several months before handing himself into the police.

1:02.0

This case, Sean, I like on the relative anonymity the internet can hold for people.

1:06.0

And how this enables those with darker sides fetishes or fantasies to explore their limits at will.

1:12.0

The internet has made it much easier for people to find others who are just like them.

1:17.0

And although the idea of internet friends is a nice one, there are darker corners of the where-where cannibals, fetishes,

1:23.0

and torture porn enthusiasts discuss their most violent and horrifying fantasies.

1:28.0

And their obviously is a difference between a fantasy and actually carrying out the acts you think about and describe in great detail to strangers on the internet you've never met.

1:37.0

But what happens when you do meet them? And the emails and messages you have sent are used as evidence of premeditation.

1:45.0

Can it be proven to be just a fantasy? If in the emails you have written that you are absolutely serious.

1:51.0

I think that's the thing that's really interesting about this case and other sort of internet based cases like that cannibal cop one.

1:57.0

And if you haven't seen the documentary, thought crimes, the case of the cannibal cop, seriously go watch it. Go watch it today.

2:04.0

It is so good and so interesting.

2:07.0

It's all about if you've said you're going to do something, is that enough to prove that you did it?

2:13.0

At what point does it stop being a fantasy and become a conspiracy to murder?

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