Episode 54: How to Boost Your CONFIDENCE and Reclaim Your Power Through Positive Self-Talk + Confidence-Building Habits
Cara Says It All
Cara Alwill
4.8 • 1.5K Ratings
🗓️ 30 October 2017
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
A few months ago, my publisher reached out to me to let me know that they wanted ME on the cover of my new book (insert freak out moment here!) I had a TON of emotions flowing through me when I got the news – I was super flattered, nervous, excited, anxious - you name it. I happily agreed, but kind of put it out of my head until a few days ago when my editor emailed me to say they had scheduled the shoot – and it was happening in less than 2 weeks!
For anyone listening who has ever had a big event – whether it was your wedding, your own book cover, your brand photo shoot, a big presentation – ANYTHING like that – you know the feeling of paranoia that sweeps over you when you're just a few days away from that big day.
I felt those nervous feelings creeping in when I learned about the shoot, but this time, I was able to stop myself in my tracks and flip that anxiety into peacefulness by RECLAIMING my POWER. Rather than stressing out, I decided to get into action and start doing confidence-building activities that would make me feel good. And I want to share the EXACT steps I took with you guys so that you can use them as inspiration if you find yourself in a similar situation where your insecurity takes over.
This episode's power mantra:
Confidence is available to me at all times.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Style Your Mind, a podcast for women who want to design their thoughts, empower themselves, and build a beautiful life. |
| 0:09.0 | I'm your host, Kara Al-Waleba, best-selling author and master life coach. |
| 0:13.8 | I am obsessed with women on the edge of change, and I've worked with hundreds of those women all around the world to help them unlock the best |
| 0:21.5 | version of themselves and fulfill their potential. If you're ready to style your mind and transform |
| 0:27.3 | your life, then you're in the right place. Let's do this. |
| 0:34.3 | Hi guys and welcome back to style your mind. This episode is brought to you by American Hero clothing. |
| 0:40.4 | Run by an active duty army veteran and mother of five, American Hero creates fully customizable clothing to represent your business and rock your brand. |
| 0:49.7 | Check them out at shop Americanhero.com. |
| 0:52.9 | All right, guys. |
| 0:53.9 | So I am going to share a little story with you |
| 0:57.4 | that has been on my mind. I've kind of talked about it a little bit on Instagram and on Facebook, |
| 1:02.3 | and it's just something that has, like, taken over my past week. And I love making this podcast |
| 1:07.8 | super relevant and related to things that are going on in my life, |
| 1:12.2 | what I like to call teachable moments, areas where I have kind of been able to witness my own |
| 1:17.9 | growth and kind of work through whatever it is that I'm going through at the moment and like |
| 1:22.6 | share how it feels and share how I'm working through it in real time because I think that when we're on a |
| 1:29.2 | path of self-improvement and personal evolution, whatever you want to call it, it's kind of like an |
| 1:35.0 | ever-evolving path. It never is just this destination that we reach where one day we flip a switch |
| 1:41.2 | and we're cured and we're perfect and we're happy all the time and we're |
| 1:44.4 | never anxious and we're never insecure like no this stuff takes a long time it takes practice |
| 1:52.0 | it takes dedication so i'm going to share this story with you and i think you guys will relate so a |
| 1:56.9 | few months ago my publisher reached out to me and let me know that they wanted me on the cover of my new book. |
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