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Pillow Talks

Episode 50: I Don’t Know How To Say This, But...

Pillow Talks

Vanessa & Xander Marin

Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.82.6K Ratings

🗓️ 5 May 2022

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

You know that thing you really want to tell your partner but you just... don’t know how?   Maybe you’re nervous, you really don’t want to hurt their feelings, or it feels like the time is never right.   Well, you’re not alone!   Our Instagram audience hit us with alllll the things they wish they could tell their partner, and we’re giving them our best advice for how to keep it real while avoiding the dreaded “we need to talk” opener.   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure to subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips, practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind closed bedroom doors and so much more. It's the sex education you wish you had!   Thanks StoryWorth. Get $10 off your first purchase at StoryWorth.com/pillow   Check out the show notes: vmtherapy.com/episode50 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

A lot of times, I think we just want to put this on to our partner of like,

0:03.9

I just want you to do the thing that I want, even though I don't know what it is that I want in the first place.

0:08.2

Yeah, read my mind, right?

0:09.3

Exactly.

0:15.5

Hello and welcome to the Pillotox podcast.

0:18.8

We're your host, Vanessa.

0:20.3

And Zander Marin.

0:21.6

I'm a sex therapist with over 20 years of experience.

0:24.5

And I'm just a regular dude.

0:26.1

We share the ups and downs in our relationship while giving you step-by-step techniques for improving yours.

0:31.8

Make sure you subscribe for your weekly double date full of totally doable sex tips,

0:36.4

practical relationship advice, hilarious and honest stories of what really goes on behind

0:41.9

closed bedroom doors and so much more.

0:44.6

It's the sex education you wish you'd had.

0:48.9

Hey, babe.

0:49.9

Hey, we need to talk.

0:52.1

Oh boy, what do we need to talk about?

0:54.5

It's our 50th podcast episode.

0:57.9

Wow, that is, that's wild.

1:01.5

That's so wild. That's almost a year.

1:03.5

I mean, I guess we released like three episodes at once when we first started.

1:07.6

So we're not quite to a full year of podcasting.

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