The All right Mary. You know, I'm not a gay woman, you know, I'm not a gay woman, you know, and it's that, you know, touchy sort of subject, right?

Where can you stand up for people that you are not necessarily

fully part of that community in a way that you can understand what you all go through, right?

But I have always been surrounded by incredibly intelligent, powerful gay men who have lifted me up

through lots of changes in my life.

Becoming famous was very strange and it's the gay men in my life that helped me to become a woman and I don't know that a lot of people would understand that

but it's because of what you've been through you have survived so much that you

inspire me to continue surviving.

And there we have Lady Gaga during the untucked episode of season 9 episode one really telling the T on on something something that I think is tiptoed around in the gay community, in the black community, in any minority community, where, and

she even mentions this, it's kind of a tricky subject because there are people outside of the community that want to help and they want to

inspire and they want to create change but because they're not one of the community because they don't necessarily understand it it sometimes comes off as false it sometimes comes off as

self-serving it sometimes comes off as

as arrogant right as like oh I'm gonna help these poor people oh these poor

gay people that I don't really understand but I feel bad for them or I feel bad

and it's more about my guilt and and here we have Gaga really I think really she's talking about an experience her experience as I think a

member of the community as someone that actually is a member of the

community even though she's not gay.

Yeah, I was and the other thing that that what I loved about that is that she it would be so easy with that sentiment to go to that place that

oh my god I love gay men oh my god I think gay men they're like my like that sort of way

of treating gay men like these you know fairy godmothers you know what I mean like

they're like the fucking birds and squirrels and Cinderella you know that they don't have

problems yeah right that they just come to dress you up and make you feel special

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