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The Addicted Mind Podcast

Episode 351: Parallel Recovery: Transforming Family Dynamics in Addiction and Healing with Lisa Smith

The Addicted Mind Podcast

Duane Osterlind, LMFT

Mental Health, Medicine, Health & Fitness

4.7655 Ratings

🗓️ 15 September 2025

⏱️ 36 minutes

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Summary

When Lisa Smith's family was gripped by the terror of her son's addiction, they felt like mere spectators to a relentless storm. But through her groundbreaking concept of parallel recovery, they began to reclaim their roles as active participants in the healing process. In this compelling episode, we sit down with Lisa, a TEDx speaker and author, who shares her family's transformative journey. She illuminates how families can support their loved ones suffering from addiction and mental health challenges by first addressing their own fears and recovery needs. Her insights shed light on addiction as a family disease and underscore the importance of structured recovery to create a more supportive environment.

Our conversation with Lisa also navigates the vital principles of radical acceptance and compassionate boundaries in the recovery journey. She delves into the layered challenges families face, including confronting generational trauma and the systemic issues making family recovery services less accessible. We explore how stepping back from fear-driven responses can foster healthier interactions, and how setting boundaries, rather than being acts of harshness, can be deeply compassionate. Lisa’s message is clear: when families engage in recovery, they not only aid their loved ones but enrich their own lives and relationships, crafting a nurturing space for healing amidst adversity.


In this episode, you will hear:

  • The concept of parallel recovery and its impact on family dynamics in addiction
  • Lisa Smith's personal journey with her son's addiction and mental health challenges
  • Importance of addressing addiction as a family disease and involving families in the recovery process
  • Exploration of radical acceptance and compassionate boundaries in healing
  • Challenges families face, including generational trauma and systemic barriers to recovery services


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Supporting Resources:

TedTalk: The Power of Parallel Recovery | Lisa Smith

Lisa's Website

Parallel Recovery: A Guide for Those Who Love Someone with Substance Use Disorder

TAM

NovusMindfulLife.com

https://www.theaddictedmind.com/community 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hello, everyone, and welcome to the Addicted Mind podcast.

0:08.0

I'm your host, Dwayne Austerland, and I'm glad you're here with us for another important episode.

0:14.3

Today, my guest is Lisa Katona Smith.

0:17.2

She is a TEDx speaker, educator, and author of the powerful book, Parallel Recovery,

0:24.7

a guide for those who loves someone with substance use disorder. She's known for her

0:31.0

compassionate insight that helps families build sustainable connection-based recovery.

0:38.7

So often families feel powerless, caught between the fear of enabling and that pain of letting go.

0:47.4

And today we're going to explore Lisa's model of parallel recovery where families heal by activating their own recovery first, and this approach

0:57.5

really shifts the dynamic from control to empowerment, transforming family members from

1:04.3

passive bystanders into active participants in the healing process.

1:17.2

And Lisa also shares her personal story of navigating her son's journey with addiction and mental health.

1:18.6

It's a story filled with compassionate insight and care.

1:23.2

I know you're going to get a lot out of this conversation, but before we begin, if you find

1:28.4

value in the Addicted Mind podcast, please take a moment to rate and review us in your podcast app.

1:36.2

It truly helps others who need this information find our community.

1:41.7

And don't forget, for updates on new episodes, you can connect with us on Facebook,

1:47.6

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1:50.4

All right, everybody.

1:51.6

Let's start this episode.

1:55.1

All right, everyone.

1:56.3

Welcome to another episode of the Addicted Mind podcast.

2:00.5

I think I have an incredible guest today, Lisa Smith, and we're going to talk about

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