Lift service. What is up is Angela Yee. I'm Gigi McGuire. I'm Stephanie Fancyago. I'm Laura Mora and I'm AJ Johnson.

Yeah, AJ Johnson is here and I know y'all have been watching TV when life therapy.

And of course we know you from so many things and I was just talking to you about a conversation that we have with DJ Envy when he said he wouldn't want to know if his wife cheated on him.

We were trying to figure out what is it that like is that most men do they not want to know? I think they don't want to know they can't have you have

men ever told you that they don't want to know like not not to say your man, but just men have they told you if a woman that they went just so

cheating they wouldn't want to know. So when I'm talking to now he he's a friend of mine and I tell them like your girl don't mind you

come at home four or five six in the morning. I was like no I was like what about her do you mind he was like I don't ask no questions.

He's like I don't know. When you say talking to me you're not I'm not talking to him. You said what are you talking to?

I'm talking to you. I'm talking to you.

You know, but yeah I was like she doesn't mind he's like no I'm like so do you ask her question? He's like no I don't want to know.

What do you think that is? They can't take it they can't take it but they can't take it because they know what they're doing and so they

also don't want you to ask them too many questions. I think that's part of it. Like I'm doing what I'm doing if I start asking you questions

and then you start asking me questions. Now I got to tell my shit too. Do you feel like that's an element of like not being truthful and honest

or do you feel like I just don't want to know means I just don't want to know. You don't want to mean I feel like I don't want I just don't want to know means I just don't want to know I feel like not telling is better than lying.

Do you? Do you feel the same way? I don't want to know I don't want to like I'm not the type of person who's going to look through a phone or try to find things that are not our

supposed to you know force things into my eyes. Yeah it's that whole which you don't know won't hurt you. Yeah I like that right. Would you know what I'm here. Right.

But here's the thing. Once I do find out anything now I want to know every detail. So I probably rather not know because I'm going to go

obsessively crazy. We're trying to figure every little part of it out. Right. And it drives. I rather just I rather than but here's my thoughts on it right. If I feel like you're doing

something then you're not doing it very good. And I want to know. However if I feel like everything is smooth and I don't feel like you're doing

anything I won't go looking for it. I was going to say we kind of talked about this on the show because I feel the same way it's like if I don't

feel a pinch of my soul. And I think everything's fine. Then I don't go looking but sometimes I've had that that I think everything's fine

and it wasn't fine. Right. I don't go looking but at the same time I just kind of feel like if I'm comfortable and I felt you're being honest that I'm just going

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