Ladies and gentlemen, around the world, this is the meaning of T.K. Kirkland, you listen to the T.K. Kirkland podcast.

What happened with the, what you going through, what's up?

So when I reached out to you, I was, you know, in a place of trying to figure things out.

Like I was going through stuff with my kids mom, because you know, I was, you know, being the young man, you know, being in the streets doing what I was supposed to do.

But when I was having a baby, I was like, you know, what I want to, let me switch it around.

So, you know, I kind of threw everything in that basket going forward, like doing what I was supposed to do.

Like I've been listening to your podcast for years, so I know what to do.

You know, I've put that foot forward.

But what happened was, not everything I planned didn't happen.

As in, like I tried to show my kids mom, like everything we talked about, enough security, safety, you know, that I'm serious about it to action.

I tried to, you know, guys are, because I see a certain team, you know, right.

You know, she wasn't really, she wasn't there mentally.

But at the time, I didn't realize that, you know, what I realized was the care I had for her, how I loved her, and I've seen this as a team.

And my mind, when I'm talking to her, I'm thinking she, like, understands what I'm saying.

Because it was seven years.

So I was taking it real personal as she wasn't really understanding what I was trying to, like teacher.

But I had to realize that, you know, she, you know, we just think differently.

And it was right, like she's trying to be hardheader or anything.

It was just literally, it's new to both of us.

And she just wasn't thinking the same way I was thinking.

So like once I understood that, it kind of put me on a better standpoint where I was able to, like, talk to her from a different perspective that worked for our situation as in cold parenting.

So, like, our daughter is 13 months now.

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