Episode 299: Jaiya: The Somatic Sexologist on the 5 Erotic Blueprints + Understanding Sexuality

Habits and Hustle

Jen Cohen

Entrepreneurship, Business, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Education

4.5 • 818 Ratings

🗓️ 5 December 2023

⏱️ 96 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever heard of somatic sexology? It's a fascinating field that studies the relationship between our bodies (soma) and our sexuality. It's about understanding and harnessing our sexual energy, not just for physical intimacy but also for personal growth and success in all areas of life. That’s what we explore in this episode of the Habits & Hustle podcast with Jaiya, the somatic sexologist. Jaiya explores the concept of somatic sexology and its importance in understanding our own sexual blueprints shedding light on the often misunderstood realm of sexuality. She also discusses the intriguing connection between sexual energy and business success, the significance of sexual compatibility in relationships, the multifaceted aspects of polyamory, and her role as a sex and relationship coach, and how her guidance can lead to transformative changes in your life. What we discuss: (0:00:00) - Jaya shares her journey as a somatic sexologist and the importance of understanding our own sexual blueprints (0:12:32) - Jaya shares her experience overcoming challenges in her business due to the explicit nature of her content (0:23:43) - The concept of sex transmutation and its role in awakening genius in the brain (0:27:11) - Jaya shares her morning routine, emphasizing the practice of Vajrayogini and the concept of transmutation (0:35:18) - Sexual blueprints and their impact on our experiences with intimacy and pleasure (0:42:54) - Jaya shares her experience of creating deep bonds with her five long-term partners, each serving different purposes in her life (0:53:08) - Polyamory and open relationships, including Jaya's personal experience (0:59:07) - Jaya and Jenn share personal experiences with the five sexual blueprints and discuss the importance of willingness to learn and grow (1:11:29) - Jaya shares insights into her work as a sex and relationship coach, focusing on transforming relationships and unlocking sexual potential (1:22:50) - The importance of valuing oneself and setting appropriate rates for services, highlighting the significance of self-worth and communication in relationships Thank you to our sponsors: Greenfat: Head over to Greenfat.com and use code Hustle20 to save 20%! OneSkin: Head over to oneskin.co and use code HUSTLE15 for 15% off. Pendulum: Head over to www.pendulum.com and use code JENCOHEN for 20% off. Find more from Jen: Website: https://www.jennifercohen.com/ Instagram: @therealjencohen Books: https://www.jennifercohen.com/books Speaking: https://www.jennifercohen.com/speaking-engagement Learn more from Jaiya: Book: Your Blue Print for Pleasure Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/missjaiya/

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0:00.0	Hi, guys. It's Tony Robbins. You're listening to Habits and Hustle. Crush it.
0:07.5	Jaya is on the podcast for the second time, actually, because the first time was a really fast. I felt like it was a quickie.
0:14.8	It was a quickie. Exactly. It was a quick. It was a quick interview. It's like 10 minutes with like Dave Asprey's conference or something. And I was like, oh my God, like you're so interesting on so many levels that I was like, I deep dived into your personal life because it was so fascinating. So I'm glad to have you back. Thank you. Thank you. It's such a pleasure to be here.
0:33.1	Pleasure to have you back. And the new book is called your blueprint for pleasure. And guys, I'm telling you, I love this book because, like, this is not what I'm going to say
0:42.1	to you. I was going to say before we started. Everybody loves to be categorized. Like,
0:46.6	it gives people a placehold. Like, they, it's how you explain, like, kind of like, you kind of
0:52.6	sexually compartmentalize how people think or like how, what kind of you categorize, like, kind of like, you kind of sexually compartmentalize how people think or like how,
0:56.4	what kind of you categorize like our sexual being in such a way where for me, I love that
1:03.0	stuff and my friends love that stuff because you can put your, you can, you can kind of like
1:06.9	visualize or understand better when you have that type of thing. So you like knock it out of the
1:11.1	park with that whole blueprint. Thank you so much. It's interesting because I love personality
1:16.3	typing tests. So I was a little obsessed about it like aneagram and Myers-Briggs and disc profiles
1:22.0	and astrology and just anything that can help me understand more about who I am and then help me
1:27.3	understand who I am and then help me understand
1:27.7	who I am in relationship to another person.
1:29.8	Yes.
1:30.2	So that then my communication or my connection with them and I'm really honoring who they are
1:35.2	so that they can also honor who I am.
1:37.6	And I started thinking like, hmm, that's interesting.
1:40.4	Like there's nobody who's done sexuality, like sexuality typing and creating a system
1:45.3	for us to understand more about who we are when we're aroused, when we're turned off,
1:50.2	and really looking at our superpowers on who we are as a whole picture in that. Yeah. That's where it started
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