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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 285: Grief and New Relationships & Secondhand Trauma

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 14 January 2022

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

Hello, all! I hope that you are having a fantastic week. Unfortunately, omicron has found its way into the Duff household, but alas... the show must go on!

I have a great Q&A episode with the following questions submitted by listeners like you:

  • My wife died two years ago, and I am still completely closed off to romantic connections. What can I do?
  • Is it possible to be traumatized by hearing about something bad happening to someone else?

As always, you can send questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and find the show notes at http://duffthepsych.com/episode285

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You know what we don't want is for this to be such a scary experience and such a

0:03.9

unraveling experience that you back off from it again and you put that book even

0:08.3

higher up on the shelf in the restricted section of your mind's library right that's

0:12.2

not what we want we We want you to feel

0:14.0

confident. We want you to have coping tools and the ability to withstand the work

0:18.6

that you're going to be doing. Hey everybody, before we start the show I

0:21.7

want to make a couple disclaimers. This show does

0:24.2

cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general and some of those

0:28.5

could be sensitive for you. I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave in consuming difficult content, but also respect and recognize your limitations.

0:37.0

So please use your best judgment. I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an episode entirely but feel free to feel it out

0:44.4

check out the episode and just see what happens if you need to skip that's okay but you know feel

0:48.4

free to give it a shot first I also need to say that while I am a psychologist I'm not your psychologist and I'm not your therapist.

0:55.0

This is not intended to be direct medical advice and you should not use this as a substitute for professional help.

1:00.0

So with those said let's go ahead and get into the show. All right.

1:17.0

Hello friends of all varieties. This is the Hardcore Self Health Podcast episode

1:24.7

2 85. I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Duff the Psych. I make mental health content

1:30.4

for real people just like you. And today I have a question and answer

1:34.0

episode for you if you have a question that you'd like to submit for the

1:38.2

podcast you can send it into me at depth the psych at dream-mele.com I've gotten a ton of really good questions lately so thank you for those

1:45.2

but please keep them coming. It's very helpful for me to have you know a variety of

1:49.7

questions to choose from. I like to try to you know mix it up on the show so I'm not

1:54.3

covering the same things all the time so it's good to have a variety of things to

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