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The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Episode 277: Co-parenting Problems & Disappearing Depressed Partner

The Hardcore Self-Help Podcast with Duff the Psych

Robert Duff, Ph.D.

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.5 • 1K Ratings

šŸ—“ļø 5 November 2021

ā±ļø 49 minutes

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Summary

Hello, friends! In this episode, I start with some concerns from my personal life that tie into some social psychology concepts before jumping into the following questions:

  • Co-parenting with my ex is difficult given our difference in opinion about discipline. How do I stop our interactions from driving me crazy?
  • My partner retreats and can't feel anything when he is in a depressive state. What can I do to make him know that I'm here for him?

As always, you can send me your questions to duffthepsych@gmail.com and show notes are available at http://duffthepsych.com/episode277

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0:00.0

It's really common to have different attachment styles to each caregiver in your life, you know, parent or otherwise.

0:08.0

You know, you might have an anxious or more disorganized attachment style to one parent and a very secure one to the other.

0:17.0

Hey everybody, before we start the show I want to make a couple disclaimers.

0:20.9

This show does cover a wide variety of topics related to mental health and life in general and some of those could be sensitive for you.

0:27.0

I want to simultaneously encourage you to be brave and consuming difficult content, but also respect and recognize your limitations.

0:34.7

So please use your best judgment.

0:36.3

I will never be offended if you need to skip a question or an episode entirely, but feel free

0:40.6

to feel it out, check out the episode and just see what happens.

0:43.4

If you need to skip, that's okay, but you know, feel free to give it a shot first.

0:47.4

I also need to say that while I am a psychologist, I'm not your psychologist and I'm not your therapist.

0:55.6

This is not intended to be direct medical advice and you should not use this as a substitute for professional help. So with those said, let's go ahead and get into the show. All varieties. This is the Hardcore Self-Help Podcast episode

1:23.0

277. I'm your host Dr. Robert Duff, aka Duff the Psych. I make

1:27.6

mental health content for real people just like you. And today I have a

1:32.0

question-and-answer episode. Both of these questions are basically related to relationships.

1:37.0

One's going to be about co-parenting, one's going to be about a partner with depression issues.

1:42.0

So that's kind of the vibe of this episode.

1:45.0

Before I get into it, I wanted to talk about something.

1:48.0

This is related to like my personal life in real life.

1:52.0

It's also, you know, related to like cultural, social, political

1:56.5

things. So if you don't want to hear anything about that, just fast forward a few, you know, jump

2:01.3

forward a few 30 second bursts and see if I'm to the questions but I do

2:04.8

want to talk about it a little bit. So my oldest son Remy he's five and he's in

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